I have a female kitty, she's about 9 months old. She has not been spayed yet, because I have not had the money, but I am going to try to get it done in the next month. It's not too late is it? I keep reading that it's best to spay them when they are younger. Growing up, my family cats were always spayed and neutered, so to be honest I don't know if she is in heat right now or not. She meows A LOT (especially at night) and tries to go outside sometimes (we don't let her.) She sporatically goes nuts too, but that just may be her personality! What do you all think? If she is in heat, is it okay to spay her?