I just got off the phone with my almost-ex sis-in-law. She called to ask me about computers (like I'm an expert
) and then we were chatting a bit. She was kind of speaking in a mildly fed up way about my almost-ex (I should have wised up when I noticed that none of the other women in his family thought very much of him), saying that she would have called him about the computer but she asked him not to call her (!) and she didn't feel like it was reasonable to call him after that. She added that she didn't want to talk to his "roommate" either because she was sure she would let something slip and made some comment about "that woman he's MARRYING"!!!!!
What a sh*t. What a b*st*rd. There is actually no swear word strong enough for what I think of him. Divorce is final in May, he's getting married in July.
The worst thing is, I know all about him. I know what he's going to end up doing to her. And on some weird level, sisterhood is stronger than love or hate, and I wish I could warn her. She must protect herself and her child! He is not reliable or trustworthy and he tends to petty larceny (bad checks, etc.) and he will get her to help him out then end up wrecking her life. And there is nothing I can do or say that will have any effect on her, because it will continue to look like sour grapes. I wonder if I should even try? Probably not worth it.
What a sh*t. What a b*st*rd. There is actually no swear word strong enough for what I think of him. Divorce is final in May, he's getting married in July.
The worst thing is, I know all about him. I know what he's going to end up doing to her. And on some weird level, sisterhood is stronger than love or hate, and I wish I could warn her. She must protect herself and her child! He is not reliable or trustworthy and he tends to petty larceny (bad checks, etc.) and he will get her to help him out then end up wrecking her life. And there is nothing I can do or say that will have any effect on her, because it will continue to look like sour grapes. I wonder if I should even try? Probably not worth it.