Hi something has been bothering me and I wanted to know how everyone else deals with it...
Before we brought Nismo home in December we would play with Sleeves all the time, using the cat dancer, balls and all the other countless number of toys we have. He was also quite content playing on his own, with his ball or his favourite mouse or whatever he could find to play with!
Now that we have Nismo since she's so young she wants to play all the time and I'm finding it difficult to find something that they can both play.
Everytime Sleeves goes to play with something Nismo will drop what she's doing (even if it's sleeping...) and go over and steal his toy, this is starting to sound like my childhood...
Sleeves then gives up and lies down. This also happens when we play with him aswell as when he starts to play on his own, whatever toy it is Nismo just comes and jumps right in and Sleeves gives up.
Although they adore each other and play together all the time and use a lot of energy together I think it's still paramount that they BOTH play with myself and Mark aswell. I don't want to just be the food provider to them.
Does anyone know of any ways to combat this? Or will Nismo start to grow out of it and let Sleeves play with whatever he has?
Does anyone know of any toys which can be played with by more than one cat at the same time? Im just starting to feel bad watching Sleeves sit back and stare at me playing a game with Nismo, which he started. I also dont want to separate them for individual playtime.
Other than this everything is going great and getting a second kitty was the best thing we ever did for Sleeves! (and us)
Lauren
Before we brought Nismo home in December we would play with Sleeves all the time, using the cat dancer, balls and all the other countless number of toys we have. He was also quite content playing on his own, with his ball or his favourite mouse or whatever he could find to play with!
Now that we have Nismo since she's so young she wants to play all the time and I'm finding it difficult to find something that they can both play.
Everytime Sleeves goes to play with something Nismo will drop what she's doing (even if it's sleeping...) and go over and steal his toy, this is starting to sound like my childhood...
Sleeves then gives up and lies down. This also happens when we play with him aswell as when he starts to play on his own, whatever toy it is Nismo just comes and jumps right in and Sleeves gives up.
Although they adore each other and play together all the time and use a lot of energy together I think it's still paramount that they BOTH play with myself and Mark aswell. I don't want to just be the food provider to them.
Does anyone know of any ways to combat this? Or will Nismo start to grow out of it and let Sleeves play with whatever he has?
Does anyone know of any toys which can be played with by more than one cat at the same time? Im just starting to feel bad watching Sleeves sit back and stare at me playing a game with Nismo, which he started. I also dont want to separate them for individual playtime.
Other than this everything is going great and getting a second kitty was the best thing we ever did for Sleeves! (and us)
Lauren