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post #1 of 38
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Well, teenagers at least.
This is part venomous rant, and part serious point. lol

I came SOO close to beating the ever living you-know-what out of a whole theater full of teenagers.
No offense to the good teens here...I know that not all teens are obnoxious little snots. But man these kids were!!

My boyfriend and I went to see Hostel this evening. We've waited a long time for this freakin' movie. We are horror fans, and Eli Roth makes some good stuff. Now, this is a hard-R movie. Lots of gore, violence, nudity and foul language, on top of the vicious adult psychological overtones.... It was an excellent horror movie, but it's NOT something that I'd like for anyone under the age of 18 to see. I went to see Interview with the Vampire when I was 16, that had an R rating, I didn't get ID'd, but that movie was NOT on the level of Hostel. Frankly, I'm surprized they were able to squeeze an R rating out of Hostel. Anyways, it is NOT a kids' movie.
I would say that at least 60% of the people in that theater were high school kids.
Not only should they not have been there unaccompanied since it's an R movie, they were FREAKIN OBNOXIOUS!! Talking, up and down and in and out the whole time, on the cell phones, over-reacting, all kinds of obnoxious crap. I came SOO close to walking out.... It was so bad I had a hard time enjoying the movie!! We missed about half the build-up because of a few snot-nosed kids!

Oh, and did I mention the FAMILY, that came in with their pre-teen kids??? Now I'm all about horror movies, but come on...some things just are NOT appropriate for children to see. It's one thing for a kid to see Freddy Kruger or Jason Vorhees, but this was on a totally different level.

Yeah...another thing. The theater had 4 people working. One selling tickets, one manning the concessions, one taking tickets and one manager. On a FRIDAY NIGHT!! This isn't a large theater, but still...on a Friday night, you need to have more than 4 people working.


Anyway, back to my original point.
The kids in the theater really ticked me off. NO manners, NO respect for other movie-goers. They're little snots, but I can't help but blame the parents.
Those kids shouldn't have been at that movie to begin with.

Oh, and I really liked the movie. If anyone here is into horror, I highly recommend that you go see it.
It was disturbing, but that's the mark of a good horror film, ain't it?
post #2 of 38
wow first let me say that i had to take a breath after reading your post lol it was like i could sense how upset you were and almost imagined you trying to get all that said in one breath lol... but for real now lol

I understand your frustration 100%! there is nothing that i hae more than going to a movie and having all those distrractions. and I think that theater personal should be more diligent about making sure that (kids) are old enough to see the "harder" movies. there is no way i would allow my kids to watch movies that are "to old" for them. makes you wonder if their parents know what their kids do when they are not around huh?
post #3 of 38
I agree that parents are too careless about what movies they allow their young kids to see, and that theaters are too interested in making money and don't card kids the way they ought to. I've seen parents bring children in the 5-8 age range to R-rated movies. Frankly, if the rating is for sexual content I don't worry so much, because most of the innuendo will go RIGHT over their heads, and I don't care if my young child sees an exposed breast (oh no . . . not the human body!). But I don't want a five year old to see someone's head blown off. And yes, for the especially hard-core horror movies I don't think most teenagers should be seeing it either!
post #4 of 38
Your first mistake was going on a Friday night . The last movie we went to see was Harry Potter I believe. On a Sunday morning. At 10:00. In the Bible Belt. I think there were 4 other people in the theater.

But yes, these kids DO NOT need to be in these kinds of movies. It's the parents' fault for not teaching them any manners, but also the theater's fault for not IDing.

I've read some real horror stories (pun intended ) along the same lines (unruly children in public) at Delphiforums "Etiquette Hell" . Trust me, unfortunately you're not alone.
post #5 of 38
My husband has a hard time getting me to the theater because of all of the inconsiderate people. But my biggest complaint are parents who don't think. It seems every movie I go to, there are children who are too young for the movie. We went to the Corpse Bride (PG) and there was a couple with a 4-year old. The movie didn't have anything really violent or such but just by reading the synopsis of the movie, I would not take a 4-year old to it because it isn't a story geared towards younger children. And sure enough, half way through the movie, the kid started getting restless and asking how much longer. You could see and hear how bored he was. It was distracting.
post #6 of 38
When I went to see Just Friends. .there were kids everywhere.. in the front row were kids aged from around 5-12 years old.. making snude comments and generaly being rude.. yelling.. repeating things that were said.. very loudly.. consdering me and my friends were in the middle and heard them clear as a bell.
Erg. Parents need to know when to shut their kids up!
post #7 of 38
There will always be kids in the theatre that are rude and will be distracting no matter what...just trying to be irritating. As far as minors being at an R rating movie. The theatre is taking a huge risk allowing them in. I think it depends where you go. I remember when I was 17 my friends and I went to the theatre to try and see "Interview with the Vampire" and they wouldn't let us in because we were underage. Theatres need to be more diligent, in checking the age of those they let in.
post #8 of 38
Yuck....That's all I have to say. My sister is at that age and we just went on a vacation. The whole time we were in the country, she was texting, calling, etc, and not quietly. Ugh. I'm so glad that I was such a nerd in high school.

I actually had quite a pleasant movie-going experience last night...I saw a 9:30 show of Brokeback Mountain. In the gay neighborhood, so it was all couples, and then my best friend and I But I was kind of amazed that ever show of that is still selling out around here...

Anyway, I'm so sorry that your movie-going experience had to be so terrible. Maybe it's just that there's nowhere else for these obnoxious kids to carry out their blase socil interactions and so they feel they need to bother other people to do it? This is probably why teens, by and large, garner such negative attention. So many of them have clueless parents and nothing better to do!
post #9 of 38
I think part of the problem may go to the Theatre owner's greed.

I took my thirteen year old nephew to see "King Kong". He was charged an "adult" price. Apparently, being a kid stops at 12 (there were no student discounts either - I had him take his School ID out, no luck)

If a theatre can charge an adult price to kids, it doesn't make sense that they can then bar them from Rated R or other "age-restricted" films.

An "adult" charge for tickets = license to see age-restricted movies.
post #10 of 38
i don't let my kids see anything rated over G ( they are 9,8and 7) till i have seen it first and if im not sure ill watch it againand if i think its ok i will wait till it comes out on video than watch it at home lol maybe im just over protective huh?
post #11 of 38
Once when | was buying a movie ticket I saw three middle school aged girls counting their money and conspiring to lie and buy a kids's ticket for the shortest one. Then when they got up to the counter the woman told them "no kids allowed." They were so confused!
post #12 of 38
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Originally Posted by Mom2SalemIsis
i don't let my kids see anything rated over G ( they are 9,8and 7) till i have seen it first and if im not sure ill watch it againand if i think its ok i will wait till it comes out on video than watch it at home lol maybe im just over protective huh?
I admire parents who do that. My BIL took my 5 year-old nephew and some other kids to see the Hulk. And then he wondered why the nephew was acting up for the next couple weeks. The kids was obviously over-stimulated by the action in the movie.
post #13 of 38
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It was so bad I had a hard time enjoying the movie!!
How does one "enjoy" watching toes getting snipped off with a wire cutters, an eye being pulled out, fingers getting cut off?? It may be only a "movie" but making human torture (which is very real in many parts of the world) something you can watch with your friends while eating popcorn, seems, I don't know.... disturbing.
post #14 of 38
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Originally Posted by catlover67
How does one "enjoy" watching toes getting snipped off with a wire cutters, an eye being pulled out, fingers getting cut off?? It may be only a "movie" but making human torture (which is very real in many parts of the world) something you can watch with your friends while eating popcorn, seems, I don't know.... disturbing.
Ruh roh!!
post #15 of 38
I hate them having cell phones in the theatre. There's nothing like looking around and seeing 50 cell phone screens lit up as they text the person sitting 2 chairs over from them!
post #16 of 38
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Originally Posted by catlover67
How does one "enjoy" watching toes getting snipped off with a wire cutters, an eye being pulled out, fingers getting cut off?? It may be only a "movie" but making human torture (which is very real in many parts of the world) something you can watch with your friends while eating popcorn, seems, I don't know.... disturbing.
Because it's fantasy. It's not real, it's props, it's fake blood, it's great make-up, it's a wax head being beaten in and wax fingers being cut off. IT'S NOT REAL. It's a MOVIE. It's FICTION. I understand that actions such as that are not acceptible in the real world, and the writer, director, producer, or actors in movies like that would not condone the stuff that's in the movies.
I also understand that the film maker was playing on Americans' xenophobia, and playing around current events. Interesting that SO many horror movies lately have featured torture, when Abu Ghraib, Gitmo and the secret CIA prisons are out there in the real world. Good horror makes us come face-to-face with and confront what we fear the most and what we least wish to confront.
Look at the great horror movies of the past. Night of the Living Dead had strong overtones of the civil rights climate of the early 60's...a black hero who gets killed by the white police at the end, and one culture is literally eating another alive. Dawn of the Dead had the blatant criticism of consumerism. The Texas Chainsaw Masacre was perpetrated by out of work slaughter house workers, who'd been put out of work by automation.
I don't get off on blood and guts, but I like a good movie with a good plot and an interesting point that makes you think. And this one met those criteria.
It's disturbing, we NEED to be disturbed sometimes, and we need to know WHY we were disturbed by what disturbs us.
post #17 of 38
I can't figure that out either. I watched horror movies growing up, but they were movies like Halloween, Nightmare on Elmstreet, Aliens, and Friday the 13th. My mom would not have let me watch a movie like Saw as a kid. She was not ok with us watching movies that depicted torture or rape. Boogey men seem a lot more harmless than psychos who could be real people. I don't really want to see Hostel because I don't get into torture movies, Saw was bad enough for me! I love horror, especially Italian horror and zombie movies- but people torturing people I can't get into!! I would never let my child watch a movie like that.
post #18 of 38
I am also not a fan of horror movies, but I wholeheartedly agree that if it has an R rating, no one under 17 should be allowed in to see it. I would have contacted the manager, informed he/she that the place was full of underage people and demanded tickets for another showing. I would be writing or emailing the owners of the theater, the distributors of the film, and anyone else I could think of to see that it does not happen again.
I forget where it happened, but somewhere 2 elementary school kids tried to re-enact a scene from a bloody horror movie, and someone got hurt. The teacher got Social Services involved, and underage kids were kept out for awhile at least. It's a shame it took that for parents to act like intelligent adults and not allow their kids to see inappropriate movies.
post #19 of 38
i like horror movies strictly cause I have always loved scaring the &^$@ out of myself knowing that everything is alright. they havent come out with any "scary" movies since i was a little girl. I watched the exorcism of emily rose the other night i was really excited to see it but when the movie was over i was sooo dissapointed its not even funny it was more like a paranormal episode of law and order than anything i was truly disgusted. my favorite movies growing up wer movie s like the guardian,it,house of wax,freddy (hehehe i love freddy)candyman (another fav!) when are people gonna make some real scary movies again. i remember being so scared that i had to turn on every light in the house and cover my mirrors with blankets and LOCK my closet door. i know it was all fake and all in my head but it was so much fun!!!
post #20 of 38
Theatre owners are not just greedy, they are DESPERATE!! What with the development of DVD, home theatre, and many people (like myself) choosing not to go to theatres because of snotty kids and high prices, theatres are losing money left and right. Even the highest grossing films these days just aren't turning in the numbers at the box office like they used to. My wife and I went to see Narnia last weekend, and the theatre was less than half full. I wouldn't want to be in that business these days.
post #21 of 38
I'll pass on the movie!

I knew a guy in college who ran the movies at the theater at our mall. He actually said that a few times when people were being rude like that, they have stoped the movie and made a general announcement that talking, cell phones, etc are against the theaters rules and to please step out to handle thier business or they would be escoted from the theater. It worked too from what he said!
post #22 of 38
I love those kinds of movies, too, but in all honesty we probably won't go because of the very things that ruined it for you. If we even bother to do that anymore, it's usually well after the movie has opened-we let the craze die down, then we go. I can't stand crying children or giggling teenagers, either. I'll wait for the DVD & buy it, it seems very intense.
I remember when I was very young, & was taken to a drive-in showing of The Exorcist..the person at the gate asked about me because I was so young, & my Dad said, "Oh, she'll sleep through it". Well, I saw the whole thing from the back seat of the car, & though it didn't turn me into anymore of a little monster than I already was, I am still a fan of the good scary flicks, old & new.
post #23 of 38
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Because it's fantasy. It's not real,
The movie is basically a re-enactment of how some humans have been tortured (for real) in many countries. The movie (which of COURSE is just "acting" with props) says that it is "inspired" by TRUE events.

If people want to rationalize filling their heads with that kind of gruesome imagery, fine. I am saying personally I find it disturbing. I don't want to be totally de-sensitized by the time I finally die.
post #24 of 38
Scary/ horror stories have been part of human society for thousands of years from the brothers Grimm to Edgar allen Poe. Its not that people like to hear other mutilating people its that in the human Psyche there is a level that wants to be scared. People liked to be scared in controlled situations which is what movies are and rollercoasters as another example. Enough of me going off topic.
post #25 of 38
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Originally Posted by jdpesz
Theatre owners are not just greedy, they are DESPERATE!! What with the development of DVD, home theatre, and many people (like myself) choosing not to go to theatres because of snotty kids and high prices, theatres are losing money left and right. Even the highest grossing films these days just aren't turning in the numbers at the box office like they used to. My wife and I went to see Narnia last weekend, and the theatre was less than half full. I wouldn't want to be in that business these days.
BINGO! It costs me the same amount of money to BUY the DVD when it comes out and be able to watch it when and how I want to, and as many times as I want to for an indefinite amount of time, as it does to go to the theater to see it once. With annoying idiots who usually ruin it anyway. Not counting the popcorn and drinks which are as expensive as the tickets!

We only see very select movies in the theaters. The last three we've seen were Star Wars Ep. III, The Punisher, and LOTR Return of the King. I've got better things to spend my cash on. And we do love movies - we've got almost 400 DVDs.
post #26 of 38
I was at a theatre once to see a movie and there were some troubling youngsters making noise and acting up too. My date and I simply went to the box office and requested a refund (which they gave us) and left.

Perhaps if more of us did that the management might catch on and do something about the kids. After all, where do these kids usually get their money to go to the movie? From the parents, so the management might be more inclined to ensure they have adults frequent their theatre.
post #27 of 38
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Originally Posted by xDx
Scary/ horror stories have been part of human society for thousands of years from the brothers Grimm to Edgar allen Poe...
I don't like them either .
post #28 of 38
The Film director william castle in the 50s. His film the tingler to make the experience even more scary he wired the seats up so at points in the film a small electric shock would make people jump and scream!! The things they do to get people in to the cinema.

The best Horror is normally anticipation. The scariest movies are normally not that graphic. If you read HP Lovecraft his books are all anticipation.
post #29 of 38
After the movie I would have spoken to the manager on duty and also gotten the district managers phone number and let them know that I was not happy with what happened. Maybe even asked for a refund depending on how annoyed I was.
post #30 of 38
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Originally Posted by catlover67
How does one "enjoy" watching toes getting snipped off with a wire cutters, an eye being pulled out, fingers getting cut off?? It may be only a "movie" but making human torture (which is very real in many parts of the world) something you can watch with your friends while eating popcorn, seems, I don't know.... disturbing.
I so agree with you.
To me, I do not want to see torture.
And anyone who takes their child to see such a thing should be arrested for emotional child abuse IMO

And whatever happened to theater's checking I.D.'s for crying out loud.
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