My mom has been interfering with my relationship, and it's getting worse. She now wants to write a letter to my spouse, and his father.
I told her to not write the letter, scince it will only start a war that I couldnt handle at this point. Then she got drunk (she never ever drinks), and was going off on my littler brother (he just called) telling him how much she hates my spouse, and my life etc....
There is way too much to say about my relationship, and it gets really long and you guys arent counselors (which I need lol), so I wont go into full detail about anything.
But...How do I tell my mom to take a step back? Im 21, I have a 2 year old baby girl, and my spouse isnt what my family wanted for me. They wanted so much better. I have concerns about the way my relationship is standing anyhow, and I have been talking to my mom about the way I feel, and she's going nuts.
Im at a wits end. Just wondering if anyone has had any problems with thier mom, and how did you tell her to back off a little bit, without hurting her.
I told her to not write the letter, scince it will only start a war that I couldnt handle at this point. Then she got drunk (she never ever drinks), and was going off on my littler brother (he just called) telling him how much she hates my spouse, and my life etc....
There is way too much to say about my relationship, and it gets really long and you guys arent counselors (which I need lol), so I wont go into full detail about anything.
But...How do I tell my mom to take a step back? Im 21, I have a 2 year old baby girl, and my spouse isnt what my family wanted for me. They wanted so much better. I have concerns about the way my relationship is standing anyhow, and I have been talking to my mom about the way I feel, and she's going nuts.
Im at a wits end. Just wondering if anyone has had any problems with thier mom, and how did you tell her to back off a little bit, without hurting her.