About a week ago a good friend of mine called me up in the middle of the night when he had been kicked out of his house (drunk). Being as he is a good friend I kindly gave him my spare room for the month that he will remain in town.
Everything started off pretty well, but now he doesnt do anything around the place, he leaves his mess around, doesnt clean up after himself, he takes things without asking, and invites his friends over without telling me.
I get home for lunch today and my best friend told me that while I was at the hospital last night visiting my sick mother, my friend was b*tching about me, telling her that *I* don't do anything!!!.
It makes me so angry that he could say that about me especially after I offered him somewhere to stay, because he didnt have anywhere to stay. And also that he could say that about me to my best friend, and in my own house!!
The worst part about it is that all he does is drink, eat, sleep and "works". He comes home, he drinks, we cook him dinner, he goes to bed, he gets up, and goes to "work" again. That's all he does, he hasnt done ANYTHING.
I just wanted some advice to how I could tell him how I feel about this, I don't want at all to kick him out, and he is hard to talk to because he points out other people's mistakes and can't admit to his own. Any ideas of how I can get through to him?
Everything started off pretty well, but now he doesnt do anything around the place, he leaves his mess around, doesnt clean up after himself, he takes things without asking, and invites his friends over without telling me.
I get home for lunch today and my best friend told me that while I was at the hospital last night visiting my sick mother, my friend was b*tching about me, telling her that *I* don't do anything!!!.
It makes me so angry that he could say that about me especially after I offered him somewhere to stay, because he didnt have anywhere to stay. And also that he could say that about me to my best friend, and in my own house!!
The worst part about it is that all he does is drink, eat, sleep and "works". He comes home, he drinks, we cook him dinner, he goes to bed, he gets up, and goes to "work" again. That's all he does, he hasnt done ANYTHING.
I just wanted some advice to how I could tell him how I feel about this, I don't want at all to kick him out, and he is hard to talk to because he points out other people's mistakes and can't admit to his own. Any ideas of how I can get through to him?