Just need to express my frustration with how things how progressing with my new addition, Claire. I'm frustrated with the situation, not with her. It's been just over two months since she came to live with us and she and other cats are getting along great. Our relationship is progressing much more slowly. There have been a few times when it seemed like she was really warming up to me, even curling up next to me on the couch or sleeping on the bed with the rest of the crew. But, most of the time, she still seems very skittish around me. She'll let me approach her some of the time, but I have to do it very slowly and speak to her softly. Then, she'll let me pet her for just a little bit, before she jumps up and runs away. Sometimes, she'll just get within a couple of feet and I'll find her staring at me, almost as if she's deciding whether or not she can trust me. She does love to play and we interact a lot over Da Bird or the cat dancer.
Given all the instability she's experienced in her young life, I'm fine with taking things at her pace. She's got all the time in the world and I have no expectations of her. She's a sweet, beautiful little cat and I'm blessed to have her. I just wish I could do more to reassure her that she's safe and loved and that my home (her fifth!) will be her last.
I'm not really looking for any suggestions (but, they're welcome) just needed to get this out. I just love Claire so much and wish I do more to help her realize that. Thanks.
Given all the instability she's experienced in her young life, I'm fine with taking things at her pace. She's got all the time in the world and I have no expectations of her. She's a sweet, beautiful little cat and I'm blessed to have her. I just wish I could do more to reassure her that she's safe and loved and that my home (her fifth!) will be her last.
I'm not really looking for any suggestions (but, they're welcome) just needed to get this out. I just love Claire so much and wish I do more to help her realize that. Thanks.