my kitten is 5 months old and for the past 2 months she seems to prefer to be with my flatmates than me!!she always sleeps on their bed, when i have to shut my bedroom door to make her stay in there... they give her alot of attention but then so do i,like i play with her as soon as i get home and i feed her etc.. but she just seems to like them better! also when she sees me she acts all scared and runs away from me, and she gets nervous when i pat her, but she likes it when my flatmates pat her. the only thing i can think of that she would be scared of me is because she has ear mites and i have to give her the medication, but still , she totally ignores me, and loves my flatmates! i am getting to the point of frustration and disapointment! will she grow out of this? or will i have to kick my flatmates out before she will start to like me? also what can i do to improve our relationship? i feel i am doing all i know how (eg. playing with her as least 15 mins a day, talking to her, TRYing to pet her, feeding her, and giving her treats!)
please help!!!
please help!!!