Ok, so my little sister, Ashley (18 years old) got engaged on Christmas eve. I posted last week about it!
I am so very happy for them both! The wedding is set for June 24, 2006.
Here's the thing...I got married 3 1/2 years ago and she was my maid of honor. Zack and I were discussing the exciting news and we both thought that she would make me her Matron of Honor in her wedding...come to find out she didn't include me or my little sister Allyson (9 years old) at all in the wedding. She is using 3-4 friends who she has only known less than 2 years. I was very shocked by this and quite frankly, not sure what to think.
Here's another thing, I automatically thought I would be in the wedding party and told my sister that I wanted to give her a wedding shower and she agreed to it. Five minutes later, she was giving me the run down of when the bridesmaids would get fitted for their dresses and I casually asked, "So, who are the other bridesmaids"...her response: "Lacey, Michelle and Anna". And Jennifer is the maid of honor". I didn't say anything past this point and proceeded to end the conversation (this was on the phone). So, I am not sure what to think. I am hurt by this, and Zack thinks that it will bite her in the a$$ sooner or later.
Should I confront her as how I feel? Should I still give her a shower? Doesn't her maid of honor do this?
Here's the thing...I got married 3 1/2 years ago and she was my maid of honor. Zack and I were discussing the exciting news and we both thought that she would make me her Matron of Honor in her wedding...come to find out she didn't include me or my little sister Allyson (9 years old) at all in the wedding. She is using 3-4 friends who she has only known less than 2 years. I was very shocked by this and quite frankly, not sure what to think.
Here's another thing, I automatically thought I would be in the wedding party and told my sister that I wanted to give her a wedding shower and she agreed to it. Five minutes later, she was giving me the run down of when the bridesmaids would get fitted for their dresses and I casually asked, "So, who are the other bridesmaids"...her response: "Lacey, Michelle and Anna". And Jennifer is the maid of honor". I didn't say anything past this point and proceeded to end the conversation (this was on the phone). So, I am not sure what to think. I am hurt by this, and Zack thinks that it will bite her in the a$$ sooner or later.
Should I confront her as how I feel? Should I still give her a shower? Doesn't her maid of honor do this?