Hi guys, I have a question for those of you experts on behavior. Is it possible for a domineering cat to NOT be the "alpha cat?" For example, Napoleon D. can be very domineering at times, but I don't think he is the alpha, b/c Cassie fights back when he is. Sometimes, he does win their fights, but for the most part it's Cassie who is the victor.
If you need more examples, I can provide. But the reason I ask is because I noticed something interesting the last few days. Usually if they are being good kitties, I will give them snacks. Well, I put Cassie's down first, then Napoleon second. Napoleon usually eats his straight away. But Cassie did something interesting -- she watched him as he ate, and then she ate hers. That doesn't sound typical of an alpha. But she lets him know her limits and he doesn't care LOL.
What do you guys think?
If you need more examples, I can provide. But the reason I ask is because I noticed something interesting the last few days. Usually if they are being good kitties, I will give them snacks. Well, I put Cassie's down first, then Napoleon second. Napoleon usually eats his straight away. But Cassie did something interesting -- she watched him as he ate, and then she ate hers. That doesn't sound typical of an alpha. But she lets him know her limits and he doesn't care LOL.
What do you guys think?