Okay, here's my situation. I went to visit a friend last night and she's always claimed to be a 'huge animal lover'. So I thought her pets were in good care.... well, she has an elderly cat that is now deaf. This cat climbed up on the table, and my friend took the cat and just dropped her 4 feet onto the floor. She didn't take the time to bend over and set her down, she just dropped her. This cat is at least 15 so you know her joints and bones are sore already... I was really bothered by that but I made light of it because I didn't want to cross a line. I told her she was being mean, but laughed a little. She also said the cat has been throwing up lately but she refuses to spend money on a vet visit... here's the kicker. She just bought a $400 puppy. If she can spend $400 on a puppy, surely she can spend money to take care of the animals she already has. I just feel so terrible and I want her to know how I feel... but I don't want to ruin our friendship.
Any advice on how to address this?
Any advice on how to address this?