My 4-year-old is not happy about the arrival of a 6-mo old kitten. Ever since the kitten's arrival, she stops being affectionate--does not want me pet her, stay at arm's length, does not sleep with me anymore etc., and at the same time has decreased her food intake a lot. She has lost some weight, I don't know how much. She's one of those cats that won't let you hold her, so I can't go with her to my bathroom scale. You know how when we are depressed we look aweful? She looks like that--like her high spirits have disappeared. A problem is that my kitten wants to play, and go near my 4-year old often. My 4-year old hates it and just hisses, growls, and hides when the kitten is anywhere near. My vet says there is no physical problem with her, but to just give them time.
She also gets a supervised 15 minute in the balcony everyday. And she always returns after exploring. Yesterday, she ran away for a whole day during the balcony trip. I guess she doesn't like home anymore? At night, I saw her sitting on a far away wood fence. I called her name, and she responded with meow, but wouldn't come back to the balcony. I went out and get her into a carrier and brought her home.. I think the kitten (which has been with us for 6 weeks now) is stressing out my 4-year-old. I play with the kitten a lot--he has a lot of chasing energy which I try to "use up" with the laser pointer game. He also has tons of toys, but everytime he sees my 4-year-old, he'll stop whatever game we're plyaing and chase my 4-year old. They have been taking Bach's rescue remedie ever since the kitten's arrival to no avail. I love them both very much. Do you all have any suggestions?
Thanks!
Annie
She also gets a supervised 15 minute in the balcony everyday. And she always returns after exploring. Yesterday, she ran away for a whole day during the balcony trip. I guess she doesn't like home anymore? At night, I saw her sitting on a far away wood fence. I called her name, and she responded with meow, but wouldn't come back to the balcony. I went out and get her into a carrier and brought her home.. I think the kitten (which has been with us for 6 weeks now) is stressing out my 4-year-old. I play with the kitten a lot--he has a lot of chasing energy which I try to "use up" with the laser pointer game. He also has tons of toys, but everytime he sees my 4-year-old, he'll stop whatever game we're plyaing and chase my 4-year old. They have been taking Bach's rescue remedie ever since the kitten's arrival to no avail. I love them both very much. Do you all have any suggestions?
Thanks!
Annie