Both kitties gone within 2 1/2 weeks

I too am sorry to hear of your loss. May God guide and comfort you through this difficult time.

Originally Posted by hissy

If it were me, my house would already be blessed with new arrivals. Your cats lived long lives and you are to be commended for that. I am sure your heart is breaking, but I am also sure that you have enough love in that generous heart to give to two needy cats or kittens.

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Were I in your situation, I would probably adopt quickly, but God brings me many little souls to take care of and they can be a great source of comfort.

Maybe you can save a life and gain a friend! What a wonderful Christmas present that would be.

I'm so sorry you lost your two precious kitties in such a short period of time.
Sending lots of hugs your way. You'll know in your heart when it's the right time to add another kitty to your life. Meanwhile, I hope you can find comfort in the happy memories of your cats that will always be with you.
May they rest in peace.

oh darlin, I weep with you right now

many beautiful words have been written to you in this thread and I have nothing I can add to it except to say that your girls had such a wonderful long life with you... thats a credit to you
They will be watching over you forever... never far away, always close to your heart

I am so sorry for the pain your feeling now, 2 babies so close together is heartbreaking for anyone, and we all feel your pain. Look after yourself and when the time is right, a new bundle of life will roll into your life... until then, know that we are always here for you should you need a shoulder to lean on.

RIP sweet gorgeous girls - fly with the angels little ones

I thought I'd send an update to all of you. On a whim I stopped into my local Humane Society tonight and low and behold, I didn't come home alone. The very first kitty I saw when I walked in was a black kitten with white paws. He was alone in a cage and I found out his 3 brothers had been adopted today and he was left alone. He was irresitible. It was like he was waiting for me - and I took him home. Part of me feels guilty that I didn't take an older kitty. A huge part of me feels guilty for getting one so soon after losing the other two. I came home and cried. And then this little ball of black fluff came flying by me and it made me smile for the first time in two days. I am tickled to have a new friend and so sad at the same time.

Congratulations on your new kitten! He sounds like a furry bundle of joy.

I am so sorry you lost your two friends. The second one probably missed the first one so much she decided to move on with her. You were a wonderful meowy to them and they are looking on and helping you everyday. It was probably them that led you to your kitten.

How wonderful for you to have found a new friend so soon. Don't feel guilty. I know that your kitties that have gone on would not want you to be sad for them and would not want you to be alone. I'm sure that they are very happy for you and their new family member.

May God bless and watch over you.

Awwwww thats brilliant!! I just know this little ball of fluff is going to help heal your broken heart

Please don't feel guilty because if the truth be known this little cherub was sent for a reason by two little angels over the bridge

We need a name and pictures of this little fur ball asap!!

I am truly sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you, and I wish you luck in finding another kittie that needs the love you obviously have to give.

I'm sorry about your kitties, but I'm also glad you a kitty has found a new home.
Congratulations.

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a horrible thing to loose a kitty, but 2 I can't even imagine. I also wanted to tell you that after my 17 1/2 year old passed away I got 2 kittens with in a week. I had one of them picked out a day later, but needed some time & since he was in foster care at my friends house (I volunteer at a shelter) I knew he was in good hands. My boys really helped me greive. I still cried for Smokey, but they gave me something soft & furry to hang on to when I was down. It sounds to me like this little guy needed you as much as you needed him. The sadness will get better, but you'll never forget your girls. I always think it's a wonderful tribute to an animal you love to rescue a shelter kitty. Your babies would want you to be happy!!

Originally Posted by kyllyan

On a whim I stopped into my local Humane Society tonight and low and behold, I didn't come home alone. The very first kitty I saw when I walked in was a black kitten with white paws. He was alone in a cage and I found out his 3 brothers had been adopted today and he was left alone. He was irresitible. It was like he was waiting for me - and I took him home.

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That is WONDERFUL. Maybe there is the answer to why both your babies passed over the bridge. To make room for this little furfooted soul who now needs you. I am so happy for you. We all cant wait to see some pictures.

So sorry to hear of your loss. And I want to slap your co-worker for you. Such incredible insensitivity!

Don't pay attention to the post about your sad home, either. I think your 12 yr-old went to the Rainbow Bridge to join her friend, whom she was probably missing so very much. She had a broken heart, I think.

The void will never be filled, no matter when you decide to get another cat or cats. Another cat came into my life about 6 months after my first cat died. I wasn't ready, and it was hard for me to love her. I was afraid to get attached. And when I finally did, she got sick. We rescued her from a bad situation and she lived to be 17, so I feel good about that. But I'll always feel guilty for not loving her right away.

So I guess what I'm saying is, don't rush into it, but also don't resist it if a kitty finds you first.

So sorry! HUGS! RIP sweet babys

I'm so sorry for your losses. My two RB kits died within one month of each other so I can truly understand the pain you are feeling. Luckily I found this wonderful site where others are supportive.

I know they meant well but it drove me crazy when people would immediately ask when I was getting another cat.

You need to take time to grieve, you'll know when you are ready and some lucky cat or two will find you and their forever home.

Cynthia

Originally Posted by hissy

If it were me, my house would already be blessed with new arrivals. Your cats lived long lives and you are to be commended for that. I am sure your heart is breaking, but I am also sure that you have enough love in that generous heart to give to two needy cats or kittens.

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if i hadn't already had other cats, i would've gone to get another as soon as Mouse passed last year. for me, the pain is eased by the antics of a new friend.

Originally Posted by kyllyan

I thought I'd send an update to all of you. On a whim I stopped into my local Humane Society tonight and low and behold, I didn't come home alone. The very first kitty I saw when I walked in was a black kitten with white paws. He was alone in a cage and I found out his 3 brothers had been adopted today and he was left alone. He was irresitible. It was like he was waiting for me - and I took him home. Part of me feels guilty that I didn't take an older kitty. A huge part of me feels guilty for getting one so soon after losing the other two. I came home and cried. And then this little ball of black fluff came flying by me and it made me smile for the first time in two days. I am tickled to have a new friend and so sad at the same time.

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and here's your newest post! i am thrilled you have a new friend to help take your mind off your grief. it won't go away - but his playfulness & love will help you through this difficult time.
i really don't understand why people are like your co-worker...when Mouse died last year, my mother, who would never have a cat in her house, understood that Mouse was my daughter. when i mentioned i was having difficulty sleeping, she said, "well, you're grieving." like that was normal - which of course it is. ignore that idiot's remarks.
and if you get a chance - post a pic of your new baby in Fur Pictures Only! we'd all love to see him!

Originally Posted by ckatz

I'm so sorry for your losses. My two RB kits died within one month of each other so I can truly understand the pain you are feeling. Luckily I found this wonderful site where others are supportive.

I know they meant well but it drove me crazy when people would immediately ask when I was getting another cat.

You need to take time to grieve, you'll know when you are ready and some lucky cat or two will find you and their forever home.

Cynthia

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oops didn't read the rest of your post before i replied.

Congrats on your new kitten. Sounds like he found you.

Cynthia

How heartbroken you must feel! I had tears streaming down my face as I read the original post. I'm not game read any of the other responses, in case I start up again!

When my beloved Sheba went to sleep for the last time, I was absolutely devastated. I still can't find the words to describe how I felt at the time. It was about 7 or 8 months before I even thought I might start looking for another fubaby, and the very day I made that decision, I found my Sheitu. I had to go to the vet's to get some dry food for my boy, Sebastian, and once I looked at the adapt-a-cat cage, I was in love! Sheitu is a shorthaired torty, who had been abandoned by her previous owners when they moved house. I've had my girl for over a year now, and I just love her to bits. She cannot and will not 'replace' Sheba, but I love her anyway. She doesn't get along with Sebastian all that well - they have agreed to each keep to their own space - but I can't do much about that.

You wil know when it's time to let another furbaby into your life. No-one can tell you when the 'right' time is. When you do decide to get another kitty, I know you will be happy with the decision you make.

Sending lots of {{{{{hugs}}}}} from Down Under.

Maggie in Western Australia

I`m so glad you got another fur baby! Black with white feet...sounds like a doll baby....soooo how about a name...and pics?

Lots of hugs and thoughts for you in the loss of your sweet kitties. You may be grateful that they had very long, very happy lives with someone who loved them so much. I agree with what was said earlier that your 12 year old probably missed her friend, and that her time came quickly because of it.

Please try not to feel guilty for your new little boy. You should never feel guilty for rescuing and loving a needy kitten. Your other cats know you don't love them any less because of it. They know what a wonderful Mummy you are and that this little man will have a long, happy life the same as they did.

It can be hard to get used to a new arrival, especially after the passing of two such dear and long-time friends for you. You may have difficulty adjusting because of your confusing feelings and your grief, and this little man is new and not what you're used to.

I suggest that you give both of you time - time to get used to each other, time to get used to the newness of the situation, to get to know each other and to fall in love with each other. You will miss your kitties for a long time to come, but know in your heart that you have enough love for a wealth of kitties, and that your beloved babies are in a happy place and looking down at their new little brother getting the wonderful life he deserves.

So sorry to hear that - it is bad enough losing 2 within a couple of months, can't imagine losing 2 that quickly.
I am glad you have managed to find a new kitty to love - I am the kind of person who gets a new cat fairly quickly, but that is how I cope. I am sorry you are still feeling guilty though, I suspect your two at the bridge had a hand in this, as they knew it would make you feel so much better.

Take care, and cant wait to hear more about the kitten.