I really don't know what is wrong with him. I am really good at understanding the psychologies of other people, but his is too deeply hidden. He now hangs out only with the shallow, preppy people. That may be a cause or an affect. I only know for sure what his former friends say about him....
I do not truly believe that i have lost him as a friend, i believe he is the same person on the inside as he has ever been.
He is not on any drugs (as far as i know), but that possibility just occured to me. He has always had the typical "stoner" look, but that is only because of his hair and the dark circles. He typically has very dark circles under his eyes, more pronounced than the others in our school (we all have them, the fruit of overzealous teachers and their homework
I too am a guy with very long hair, but i do my best to keep it looking nice. Tim has declined in such areas, and i must try to discern what ails him. I will find out somehow, for i believe whatever it is in his life is certainly taking a toll.
Intelligent people like ourselves often are drawn to cats. Perhaps one of you can help me find the root of Tim's problems...? Any input is appreciated.
Thanks for your help,