Hi, I have some questions for you all...

malkor

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Hello all, I've just registered at this site today so I could get some advice about a feral cat I'm taking care of. But before I get to the questions, a bit of background...

Three or so months ago I was driving down the main street of the town I live in on my way to get something to eat. All of a sudden the car in front of me swerved into the turn lane to avoid a kitten that was in the middle of the road! It had allready been hit by someone else though and was having trouble getting off the road. I hadn't seen it until the other car moved so I had to stomp on my brakes to avoid running it over. It was a close thing, I think the kitten was actually just under the front of my car when I stopped!

The kitten limped out from under my car and managed to cross two more lanes of traffic and hide in the bushes at the local Taco Bell. With the help of a lady in the parking lot, who was pretty confused as to why I was attacking the bushes with a blanket until I explained what was going on
, I managed to catch it and get it into the trunk of my car. I took it to the local animal shelter but they would've put the poor thing to sleep and had it's corpse tested for rabies since it had managed to scratch me up in spite of the blanket, so I ended up taking the kitten to the vet.

At the vets I learned IT was a SHE, and that she was a tortiseshell kitten. Judging from the way she went berserk when the vet took her out of the carrier he thought she was most likely feral as well. Turns out she had a fractured pelvis. The vet said there wasn't a heck of a lot he could do to help her but that she would probably heal up pretty well on her own if given enough time. Not that I had the money to pay for much care as it was. The bill came out to $114!
We had her checked for feline lukemia though, just to make sure she was safe to bring home to our other two cats.

Once at home we put her in a dog kennel down in our basement to keep her quarentined for ten days, just in case she did have rabies. There was enough room for a litter box, some food and water, and a bit of bedding. Though mostly she slept in the litter box for the next few weeks. We tried leaving information at some of the local bussinesses in case someone was looking for her and kept looking in the local paper for the next few weeks in case someone was looking for her, but no such luck. We ended up naming her Bell in honour of where I found her, kinda lame I know, but better than Taco, which is what my Mom wanted to call her.

After the quarentine period was over I took the kennel up to my bedroom and after a few days up there, let her have free run of it. This was probably a mistake, since I barly saw her again for another two months! She mostly lived under my bed and would only come out when I wasn't in the room or asleep. I knew she was eating at least since the food in the bowl would disappear. Thankfully, she took to the litter box as well. I made a little fishing pole type toy out of some feathers and played with her under the bed sometimes, but any time I tried to give her a treat or anything she'd hiss and claw at me.

Just in the last couple of weeks she's become much more friendly. It started with her coming out when I was trying to get to sleep but still awake. I'd just lay there and watch/listen to her eat and explore the room. Eventullay I started playing with her using the toy I'd made, still with the lights out though. We've now progressed to the point where she'll come out as soon as I lay down on my bed, even when the lights are still on. She wanders around doing her thing: eating, pooping, knocking things over. Sometimes I play with her and I'm happy to report that she seems to have recovered quite well. She runs and jumps around after the toy and gets up on all sorts of furniture in my room. Though her hind end does seem to be a bit wobbly from side to side sometimes; this could just be normal kitten akwardness though. I can't pet her or get too close yet, and she usually runs under the bed when I get up off of it.

Just from reading a few of the other threads here I see I've already made a few mistakes. I tried petting her too early when she was still in the kennel, and later when she started coming out. I learned this the heard way actually, and have the scars to prove it. I didn't know about not looking her in the eye either.

We're not sure how old she is, I din't think to ask the vet when we took her in. If I had to guess I'd say she was 4 or 5 months when I found her and 7 or 8 now. I was afraid she wouldn't ever get used to people for a while there, and from what I read she's old enough to have picked up a healthy fear of us from living wild as long as she did. The last few weeks have laid those fears to rest however, she might not ever be a lap cat I know, but I think she'll do pretty well.

So anyhow, questions... Though now that I get to it I guess it's really just one big one, though any other advice you think may be helpful would be welcome. Here we go: While she's awfully cute and I've grown rather fond of her over the last few months, I can't really keep her. I don't have the money to pay for the vet bills she's going to need and I'm sure I want the responsiblity of another cat to begin with. Though if there were no other way, I'd certainly keep her. Happily though, my aunt is looking for a new cat and has said she would take her. Actually, she would have taken her right away except for the fact that she has two dogs and was afraid the kitten might accidently get hurt what with the fractured hip and all. Not that the dogs would try to hurt her or anything, they're small dogs and used to play with her old cat before he passed away, but in their enthusiasim they might over do it. Now that Bell is doing better though, I've been thinking about taking her over. I'm not certain how best to go about this however. She still needs to be fixed, and checked for parasites and the like. My aunt will pay for it all she says, but I'm wondering if we should take her to my aunt's house first and then once she's settled in there take her to the vet's, or just get all the trauma of moving her done all in one go by taking her to the vets to have her fixed, then taking her to my aunt's once that's done...

I'm just not quite sure what to do, you know. I guess a part of me is reluctant to give her up too, I'll be sad to see her go. Anyway, any thoughts you have would be appreciated. Thanks.



Sincerly,

Malkor, slightly reluctant owner of Bell



P.S. Wow, that's a lot more than I meant to write!
 

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It sounds like you have done a lot for little Bell. If you think of it as a foster situation, you were to foster parent, but now it is time for Bell to go to her permanent home. Your aunt's house sounds great for Bell.

I foster for an agency, and honestly I rarely foster a kitty that I don't consider keeping. But as you are aware, a cat should be thought of not just as a lovely addition to the family, but also a 20 year (give or take) commitment. And you are saying you really cannot afford that right now. So best for her to go to another home. And how ideal that you will still be able to see little Bell!

Give you aunt the info about ferals, so she can keep working on taming Bell, and understand her limitations and how best to interact with her.

Also, you might want to try fostering cats. The agency I foster for pays for all the foster kitties medical care, and sometimes even gives me bags of food. Mainly I just invest the time and space for the kitties. Some people foster loads of kitties, but I am very sure they would be glad to have someone with your patience with kitties to foster one litter or even one very shy kitty at a time!
 

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My aunt will pay for it all she says, but I'm wondering if we should take her to my aunt's house first and then once she's settled in there take her to the vet's, or just get all the trauma of moving her done all in one go by taking her to the vets to have her fixed, then taking her to my aunt's once that's done...
Honestly, I'd get the surgery over with...this kitten is now at an age where she can become pregnant..and if she freaked out at your vet...what happens if she freaks out at your aunts and manages to get outside?? Given that she reacted so poorly at your vet...you may want to borrow a humane trap and bring her to the vet in the trap. That way the vet could administer the anethesia through the trap. That is simply what I would do....but I would continue to check back and see what other people think.

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Originally Posted by TNR1

Honestly, I'd get the surgery over with...this kitten is now at an age where she can become pregnant..and if she freaked out at your vet...what happens if she freaks out at your aunts and manages to get outside?? Given that she reacted so poorly at your vet...you may want to borrow a humane trap and bring her to the vet in the trap. That way the vet could administer the anethesia through the trap. That is simply what I would do....but I would continue to check back and see what other people think.

Katie
i agree - might as well get it over with before rehoming her. that way, all of the 'bad' stuff happened at your house, instead of your aunt's. since she has to have the spay anyway, will your aunt pay for it? i would, if i was adopting her...
 

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If that were me, I'd have her spayed and keep her. However, if you cant, have her spayed and find her a really good home. It was so kind of you to even bother with her, many people wouldn't. Me, I'd help any cat.
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Thanks for responding everyone. I've really been mulling this over the last few days and I guess I finally have decided to have my aunt take Bell. I'll be sad to see her go, but I think its for the best.
I'll give my aunt a call the in the next couple days and see how she wants to set things up with her vet. How does that usually happen anyhow? Does the cat stay at the vets for a few days afterwards to recover or do they send them right home?

The only real problem I foresee with all of this is catching the little bugger, she's awfully quick. I still have her litter box in the kennel in my room, maybe if I move her food and water back in there I can trap her when she goes in by pulling the door shut with a string or something. I hate to trick her like that now that she actually trusts me some but I suppose it has to be done.

Just to clear something up; my aunt will pay for the vet bills for all of this, there's really no question of that. She actually helped me out with the first one a bit. Wish me luck then I guess. I'll try come back and let you know how things turn out.



Thanks again,

Malkor, kinda sad and soon to be former owner of Bell
 
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Hi, just thought I'd come back and let you all know how it turned out then. I took Bell over to my aunts house about a week after New Year's Day. She's settled in pretty well since then, she's not as friendly with my aunt as she was with me yet, but she's getting there. Bell will come up to get a treat from her sometimes. She's made friends with one of the dogs and they play sometimes, chasing each other back and forth through the house. The other, older, dog pretty much just ignores her, which is fine too. I'm still kind of sad I couldn't keep her, but glad she has a good home with my aunt. Plus I can go over to visit, even if I do have to look under the furniture to see her. Thanks again for your advice everyone.


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thanks for popping in with an update. How wonderful of you to rescue this poor little girl... its wonderful that your aunt could take her and I am sure she will get more and more friendlier over time

 

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Thank you for the update on little Bell! You've done many wonderful things for her, things that many people wouldn't have done. You've given her a wonderful life, though now shared with your aunt. It was your patience and understanding for her that gave her that chance.
 
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