There's no rush to get married. Take your time and be as sure as you can before you do it... because UNDOING it is astonishingly difficult and painful, even under the best and most amicable of circumstances.
I don't know how old you are or what your situation is... but I'm a firm believer that couples should live together before marrying. And it's not about sex -- it's about knowing each other 24 hours a day, maintaining a household together, going through the daily frustrations of life together... having a chance to find out whether you love each other, or are just IN love, romantically. Do you know what I mean? One is the basis for a lifetime... the other is the basis for six months, a year, maybe even two... but not forever.
Others here are right in saying that great marriages have been made in a matter of days or weeks or months... but those are the exceptions. Also, someone rightly pointed out that being married doesn't keep people together. In fact, it's the other way around: you get married because you already KNOW you intend to stay together.
All good wishes, whatever you decide!
I don't know how old you are or what your situation is... but I'm a firm believer that couples should live together before marrying. And it's not about sex -- it's about knowing each other 24 hours a day, maintaining a household together, going through the daily frustrations of life together... having a chance to find out whether you love each other, or are just IN love, romantically. Do you know what I mean? One is the basis for a lifetime... the other is the basis for six months, a year, maybe even two... but not forever.
Others here are right in saying that great marriages have been made in a matter of days or weeks or months... but those are the exceptions. Also, someone rightly pointed out that being married doesn't keep people together. In fact, it's the other way around: you get married because you already KNOW you intend to stay together.
All good wishes, whatever you decide!