I madly in Love with her. But we have not been together long enough.
Have any of you jumped into a marriage to soon?
Originally Posted by jennyranson
What is long enough? Only you can know that. My parents married after only three months of knowing each other and have had a pretty good marriage for 63 years! On the other hand a friend of mine got married after living with her guy for 5 years and they divorced after another two years. I think it depends on what kind of person you are - do you fall in and out of love easily, how many relationships have you had, can you be sure that this one is different? ANd all that goes for her too. And above all, are you good friends and compatible, as well as being in love? Are there things you would like to change in each other, things that irritate you? They only get worse after the wedding, believe me! Good luck whatever you do.
Best thing go with what you feel is right!!!! theres is no guide line on love but only you will know what is best deep down inside ...I believe in marrige but sometimes that piece of paper cant hold onto someone...im not legally married and have been with the same person for 12 years so far ...think things through go with what u feel is right ..best wishes to both of you!!!Originally Posted by Siberian Tiger
She is willing to be patient with me. But she really really wants to get married. She thinks she is going to lose me. But I reassure her all the time that is NOT going happen. Just shocked because we have not been going very long at all. Probably just about 3 months.
Originally Posted by HopeHacker
First of all, I don't think getting married is going to stop anyone from losing anyone. All you have to do is get divorced.
Unless it's to Paul Stanley of course, right?Originally Posted by HopeHacker
First of all, I don't think getting married is going to stop anyone from losing anyone. All you have to do is get divorced. Personally, I know I'm in the minority here, but I just don't believe in Marriage. In my opinion the only reason to get married is if you are planning on having children. I don't like the idea of working hard for something and then be told I have to share it equally with someone else. I also think marriage is an easy way to ruin a good relationship. I've made the mistake twice. I'll never do it again.
So, I think anytime a person gets married is too soon. By the way, I'm not meaning this as an insult to the happily married people on here. This is just my opinion on the institution.