We have a 1 1/2 year old neutered kitty named Bruno. We've had him since he was a baby, and he has always played rough. We've tried everything we can think of (I've spent many hours on these forums!) since he was little to try & train him out of scratching and biting, but he absolutely refuses to be redirected. My cat scares me! There are times he won't let me walk past him until he bites me. When we try to redirect him, he looks right past his toy to us.
Our vet & other people suggested that maybe he needed a playmate, so about 2 months ago we got a 1 1/2 year old female named Lola. We introduced them slowly & carefully, following the directions here, and it went really well. Very little hissing, etc., and that was all over within a few hours once they were finally in the apartment together.
However, he's now trying to play with her the same way that he plays with us. He holds her down & bites her. He doesn't draw blood, but she HOWLS, and has now started hissing & growling at him when he starts attacking her.
Bruno only has 2 modes: attacking & sleeping. He's antagonizing Lola or us probably 40% of the time when we're home. We can't sleep through the night because of their fighting, and when we separate them they both scratch at the doors to get out. Our apartment isn't that large, so there's really very little that we can do to get them away from each other and away from us.
We're thinking that we might have to try to find a home environment for him that would be better, although at this point I don't even know what that would be. He's a huge stress in our household. I feel SO HORRIBLE saying all of this...I've volunteered with shelters and rescue groups for the past 6 years, and never thought I would be in such a terrible situation with one of my own animals.
We're willing to try anything at this point...does anyone have any suggestions?
Our vet & other people suggested that maybe he needed a playmate, so about 2 months ago we got a 1 1/2 year old female named Lola. We introduced them slowly & carefully, following the directions here, and it went really well. Very little hissing, etc., and that was all over within a few hours once they were finally in the apartment together.
However, he's now trying to play with her the same way that he plays with us. He holds her down & bites her. He doesn't draw blood, but she HOWLS, and has now started hissing & growling at him when he starts attacking her.
Bruno only has 2 modes: attacking & sleeping. He's antagonizing Lola or us probably 40% of the time when we're home. We can't sleep through the night because of their fighting, and when we separate them they both scratch at the doors to get out. Our apartment isn't that large, so there's really very little that we can do to get them away from each other and away from us.
We're thinking that we might have to try to find a home environment for him that would be better, although at this point I don't even know what that would be. He's a huge stress in our household. I feel SO HORRIBLE saying all of this...I've volunteered with shelters and rescue groups for the past 6 years, and never thought I would be in such a terrible situation with one of my own animals.
We're willing to try anything at this point...does anyone have any suggestions?