I had a boyfriend tell me i spent to much time with my horse. This was when I had first gotten Vixen..and she had been abused. We were working on our bond. He said him or the horse. I told him to hit the road..
Originally Posted by ScamperFarms
I had a boyfriend tell me i spent to much time with my horse. This was when I had first gotten Vixen..and she had been abused. We were working on our bond. He said him or the horse. I told him to hit the road..
Sorry about the touchy situation you are in...But a 19 month old should never be left alone with a dog under any circumstances (let alone a chihuahua)!!Originally Posted by menagerie mama
Kayla is 19 months old, and she talks. Pedro is 5 years old. Kayla just adores him. The first thing she wants to do as soon as she sees him is feed Pedro, hold Pedro, kiss Pedro, she's obsessed with him, even after he bit her. When I call Mark and he tells her I'm on the phone, she asks about Pedro. If he's on my lap, she's gotta be on my lap. I do understand his point, I just wish he could understand mine. It hurts that he is so dismissive about it. I'm sure she could learn to respect him, but Mark just wants to give up. He hasn't called me yet and it's been 3 hours since I came to pick them up.
I thought that about the first dog too, that he got rid of because it kept knocking her over. What was a toddler doing in a situation where she could repeatedly get knocked over by a dog anyway?Originally Posted by Loveysmummy
Sorry about the touchy situation you are in...But a 19 month old should never be left alone with a dog under any circumstances (let alone a chihuahua)!!
What was he thinking?? This is a case of a bad situation going to worse.
hehe why thank you. Vixen never liked him anyways. LOL..she however ADORES Steve..even though he is scared of "the big bad vixen" all 13.3hh of her lolOriginally Posted by Purr
white cat lover said:Pedro likes Kayla (you didn't say anything about him being in love with Kayla, so I don't know how he feels). My mom compares a child crying over a toy taken away to a dog growling over its crate space being invaded.QUOTE]
Pedro seems to love Kayla. He watches her all the time, he tolerates her little hands poking and prodding him, she feeds him by hand and he only takes his food from her now, and when I'm near her, he comes over and lays by us. The only time he growls is when she pushes on him or something that hurts him. If he doesn't like something she is doing, he simply walks away. I've been studying him with her since they met, because he did show his teeth and growl the first time he met her, and I wanted to make sure I was reading him right and able to deal with the situation, but doesn't do it anymore.
CyberKitten said:Re: "Most of the time when an animal bites a child, it's because of mishandling on the child's part" I have to say from a professional perspective, this is not necessarily true. Most of the bites I have eer treated were due to a strange dog hurting an unsuspecting child who either petted the dog, thinking s.he was friendly or a dog who was not well trained and was food or toy possessive and attacked the child over that issue. That said, children - esp those as young as Kayla - and dogs (and kittiies for that matter) should always be supervised since a child can seriously hurt a kitty or even a small chi. And often, children do inadvertantly hurt animals., all the more reason to watch them!
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I know, I was bitten by dogs many times as a child and I didn't do anything to them, I was just saying that MOST of the time it's mishandling. I agree that she should have been supervised, I never leave them alone together, and I wasn't there at the time that he bit her. I tried to tell Mark that they need supervision, but he said it was unacceptable and shouldn't have happened, no matter what she did.
Well, It seems to me you've known the dog longer...Originally Posted by menagerie mama
Almost 10 weeks. Not very long, but they have been, up until today, the happiest 10 weeks of my life.
To me that sounds really ignorant. Is everything so black & white with him? And as for his friends, it's none of their business.I tried to tell Mark that they need supervision, but he said it was unacceptable and shouldn't have happened, no matter what she did.