Ok. Am I being horrible here? Max rang and said would it be possible to take Rubes to the vet tomorrow, because he has the first night of shooting his film tonight, I insisted that I wanted to go to the vet, too, and taking her at 5.00 would be difficult as he wanted to go to the gym.
I spat the dummy and said I felt she was more important, (although he has Bipolar disorder like me, and the gym really helps him with his symptoms and he hasn't been able to go for a few days) and he made me feel as though I was being unreasonable by wanting to go to the vet, too. He said he could take Ruby himself tomorrow.
So after we faffed around and rang the vet and asked to change and blah blah blah so much time has passed that he can't go to the gym now anyway, so we are taking her to the vet tonight as planned, but now he's making me feel really bad for not being able to go to the gym!
Am I being unreasonable in being really quite upset by this? I happen to think that she is more important than anything else, here, but obviously I am wrong...