May she rest in peace..

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I type to you with tears in my eyes upon receiving the heartbreaking news that a good friend of mine..Rachel..has taken her own life. She will be forever loved and forever missed. Lets all pray that she has finally found peace.
 

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How tragic!
I am very sorry this happened. Sending lots of strength vibes to you and your friends family.
 

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I'm so sorry Rachel wasn't able to find a better way out of her pain. So often, the loved ones left behind feel guilty for not being able to keep a thing like this from happening -- but you mustn't feel that way. The deepest emotional disturbances are often the most difficult to see, because the person usually invests a tremendous effort in concealing and denying her pain.

I have a little bit of background in this field, so if you feel a need to talk, please PM me... I'd be glad to help if I can.
 
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Originally Posted by CarolPetunia

I'm so sorry Rachel wasn't able to find a better way out of her pain. So often, the loved ones left behind feel guilty for not being able to keep a thing like this from happening -- but you mustn't feel that way. The deepest emotional disturbances are often the most difficult to see, because the person usually invests a tremendous effort in concealing and denying her pain.

I have a little bit of background in this field, so if you feel a need to talk, please PM me... I'd be glad to help if I can.
I actually do feel at fault because I didn't see the signs at all until it was too late. Like how she used to be all open and spontaneous, then she started becoming withdrawn and not really..acting herself.
 

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Please don't blame yourself. Twenty eight years ago, my daughter tried to take her life. I did not have any idea something like that was about to happen. But for the grace of God. I am so thankful to still have her. And, I am so very sorry this happened to your friend. God bless and give strength to all those who this tragedy touches.
 

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I'm sooo sorry. That brings tears to my eyes. How old was Rachel? I feel so much heartache for her family. I can't imagine how hard this must be for them. God bless them all!
 

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Oh I am so sorry to hear this! The poor thing must have been hurting so bad. Please please please don't feel guilty. Suicide is such a complicated complex thing. I've had to go through training on suicide awareness things and believe me, I'm not sure I'd ever be able to tell. It's just heartbreaking to hear this. You were her friend, whether you knew about her feelings or not, being her friend is one of the best things you can be. Don't analyze the past. Remember Rachael fondly. I will pray for peace for everyone involved.
 

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I am sorry for your loss sweetheart - I know how it feels. On the 14th I had to stop to sing blue velvet for a very dear frond of mine who took his life that day 10 years ago. I've done it every year. It still hurts.

May she rest in a happier place than this.

"Life is brief, but when it's gone, love goes on and on".
 

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I am so sorry for what you and your family are going through
. My heart aches, knowing how you feel right now. We can only hope that she is completely at peace and I hope you find some comfort in that sometime soon
.
 

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I am so sorry to hear about your friend Rachel. What a difficult time this is for you and her family.
 

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I am so sorry hun.
When I was 16 one of my best friends committed suicide, so I know what you're going through.
It's been 10 years, and I still cry about it a couple of times a year. The pain will get better in time, though, and you'll be able to remember the good memories, instead of just the bad. Think about her life, not just her death.
 

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I think it's time for a TCS group hug for you, girl.

So sorry to hear about your friend....

*peaceful healing vibes heading your way*
 
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