The first stray I ever brought home....

leli

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I've never had to post in this forum before, but I guess now is the time. My sister's cat, Casha, lives at home with my parents (when my sister moved out she was already too old to take such a big change, so she stayed there). We got Casha right around the time my brother was born, which makes her around 17 years old.

Recently she's been fine....obviously some old-age problems, like stiffness after getting up and trouble cleaning her back (which meant spa-days at the groomer), but otherwise okay.

However, on friday night, my mother changed the litterbox. Last night Casha still hadn't used it or had much of anything to eat or drink. Last vet check showed some kidney deficiency, so they're assuming kidney failure. Mom took Casha to the vet this morning and he agreed. My mom is cheap, though, and won't pay the $100 for bloodwork to confirm the diagnosis. It's not that I think the results will come back with something that can be cured. It's just that I KNOW the only reason she won't pay is financial, and it's making me very mad.

Either way, it looks like Casha's days (or maybe hours) are numbered. She had a good, long life, so I'm not as upset as I could be, but she's been around since I was six, so it's still a hard pill to swallow. Right now we're just hoping for a quick, painless passing. My mother says if Casha gets worse or doesn't improve over the next little while, she'll have her put down. I'm torn.....I don't want her to suffer, so maybe she should just be put down now....obviously she isn't going to spontaneously recover, right? But on the other hand, I don't want to write her off......
I don't know what else to say, except to ask for vibes for Casha that she will pass on gently.
 

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I am sending prays for sweet Casha & your family.
 

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My thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult hours. You are showing much wisdom, and you are absolutely right that the bottom line is that Casha not suffer. It is very difficult to let them go, because the other side of the Bridge is such an unknown to us. I choose to believe that those who have died go back to Heaven to be with those yet to be born; I take great comfort in knowing my beloveds are there with those beings yet in my future. When Casha passes, she will go knowing that she is loved and cared for; however, she will feel your distress, please reassure her that you will be okay, and that she can go in peace.
Feel free to PM me or any of the other TCS members. We all know how hard it can be to do the difficult, although humane, thing. Hugs, Susan
 

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sending lots of thoughts & love to Casha and yourself at this time - I wish I could say more but I really cant. I am so sorry


 

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Originally Posted by Leli

However, on friday night, my mother changed the litterbox. Last night Casha still hadn't used it or had much of anything to eat or drink. Last vet check showed some kidney deficiency, so they're assuming kidney failure. Mom took Casha to the vet this morning and he agreed. My mom is cheap, though, and won't pay the $100 for bloodwork to confirm the diagnosis. It's not that I think the results will come back with something that can be cured. It's just that I KNOW the only reason she won't pay is financial, and it's making me very mad.
My vet advises not to do labwork or x-rays unless you plan to follow through with the treatment. Sometimes it is more than just financial, maybe they don't want to put her through a lot of medical treatment. Try not to be too mad at your parents!

I'm sorry Casha is doing so poorly. It is very hard to lose a kitty who has been around for so long! And your first stray! May her ending be peaceful, when it comes to that!
 
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