Prayers and positive vibes, please?

vespacat

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Late night/early morning of November 14th, 1989 my dad took his life by suicide. I'm lighting a memorial candle for him as I still miss him today.


This year is particularly difficult as I'm on a medical leave from work due to having recently received the same diagnosis my father had when he was hospitalized many years ago, manic depression, now known as bipolar disorder (type II).


If you believe in prayer or positive energy, would you please send me wishes for a day of peace and serenity. Thank you so much. It means a lot to me.
 

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{{{Prayers and vibes}}} for a peaceful, thoughtful day for you. This has been a bad year for memories for me, too. Oct. 16 was my brother's death anniversary, and I kept crying although it's been 12 years - a complete Oriental astrology cycle.
How frightening it must be for you, to have the same diagnosis. But please remember that there are new therapies and medications available now that weren't there for your father, and there's TCS, too, perhaps one of the strongest therapies ever. I have seen some pretty great miracles with the board magic, and I am praying that yours will be one of them.
Susan
 

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Wishes and good vibes coming your way.

You have a great "family" on this board. I am sure your father is smiling down on you from above.

If you ever need a friend... I am here for you, and I am sure there are a lot of other Catsite members who are there for you also


[email protected] is my email.

Lots of hugs and good wishes
from me....


Bobbie
 

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Awww Jenn! I'm thinking of you.
I'm going to light a candle for him.

November 13th 2004 my Grandad passed away - I can't believe he has been gone a whole year!
 

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Jenn, I'm sending you the most calming and peaceful vibes and energy that I can.
No matter what the diagnosis, no matter how similar, you are not the same person. You can make choices. You always have choices and the power to choose. You're a strong woman, and I know you can make it through today, tomorrow, next year, and many anniversaries no matter how bitter.
 
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Thank you Susan, Bobbie, Sam and Heidi.
Your words mean a lot to me. Susan and Sam, I'm sorry to hear about your family deaths as well -- it must be a difficult times for you as well.
 

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Jenn, I am sending lots of calm healing vibes to you...As has been stated in the thread, there are alot of treatment options that were not available to your father..
I also am just a PM away, if you need to talk...I also suffer from depression (not manic) and have had to deal with many difficult times over the past years...
Peace be with you...

Monica
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss, Jenn. Sending hugs and prayers your way.
 

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I wish you all the peace and happiness life has to offer. I hope that you are able to find a good balance with your meds to bring you comfort.
 

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Oh, I`m so sorry. That must be unbelieveably difficult.
I`m praying for you today...that the pleasant memories of your dad`s life, and the good times that you had together will overwhelm and flood your mind in such a way that the sad thoughts of this day will be washed aside and replaced with peace.
Linda
 

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Originally Posted by vespacat

If you believe in prayer or positive energy, would you please send me wishes for a day of peace and serenity. Thank you so much. It means a lot to me.
Yes...I believe dear Friend!
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stay positive!
...thinking of your dear Friend!
 

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Sending vibes in rememberance of your father. May you reflect on the good times with your father. Give the blue crew any extra petting too.
 

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I'm sending positive energy your way. As Heidi said, you're not the same person as your father, may he RIP, and you're strong. Besides, you have the Blue Crew to help you through difficult times, and hundreds of people to turn to right here for support. Take care of yourself.
 

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Jenn, I'm sorry you lost your father. My husband's mother committed suicide 4 years ago and I've experienced through him how hurtful and confusing it is to lose a parent that way. I'm sending you hugs and vibes and I will remember you in my prayers. If you need to talk, I'm here for you. I may not have any great words of wisdom or know the perfect thing to say but I have a great ear for listening.
 

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I can't say it any better than it's already been said, Jenn. Please know that I'll be thinking of you and praying for you, and hoping that the day will come, when the happy memories can outweigh the sad.
 

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calming energies and positive vibes heading your way


I hope you make it through the day all right.
 
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