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post #31 of 44
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Originally Posted by emb_78
Thank you!!! My aunt looked at the pictures I brought for the board, and she loved them. She had stories for every one. I am so exusted as is the rest of the family. I just got home, and I can't relax. I have been running for almost a week now, and the worst is yet to come... The funeral!
I know you think that's the worst, but I found my dad's funeral to be incredibly cathartic - I felt very good afterward. It really does help to bring closure. You'll be exhausted, but I think it will be a better exhausted than just running around exhausted. hope it goes ok...
post #32 of 44
I agree with you Kim - I find the funeral, although a little overwhelming, a good closure. We will all be thinking of you Erin
post #33 of 44
Erin may your dear uncle rest in peace. I can only say that now he is no longer suffering, although you will all miss him terribly.

Life hasn't been easy for you lately, has it my dear?? Well, they say trouble comes in threes - things will soon look up for you, I suspect.

post #34 of 44
I'm so sorry sweetie - all my love to you and your family
post #35 of 44
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Richard Zielinski

Nov. 12, 2005 at the age of 79 years. Beloved husband of Maria (nee Gizewski). Loving father of John (Cindy), Anna (John) Bissell, Michael, Christine (Herb) Pomerich and Mark (April). Dearest grandfather of Chad, Kristie, Michele, Keith, Bryan, Danielle, David, Emily, Graysen, Hayley and great-grandfather of Alyssa. Further survived by nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends. Richard was a proud founding member of the Polonia Sport Club and a member of Laborers Union Local #113 for over 50 years.
post #36 of 44
Erin, I am so sorry. Prayers of comfort for your Aunt, yourself, and your whole family.
post #37 of 44
Erin, I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
post #38 of 44
I am so very sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
post #39 of 44
Erin, I'm just now seeing this. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. May he be at peace.
post #40 of 44
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Originally Posted by emb_78
I try to carry on like normal but it is so hard. I just can't get it out of my mind for a second. My cousin who is my age is also taking very hard. We are very close and I don't even know how to comfort him. He is also taking tranqualizers at this time.
I will never forget what my cousin said to me at my Mom's wake. She said that she had heard that tears cleanse the soul, and that she must have a really clean soul. It helped so much just to know we were in this together.

The funeral will be a comfort to you all. It is probably the worst thing your Aunt has to go through, and yet it is a time for her to hear and see that everyone else loved her husband, too. I know you feel as if you are spent with all your grief, but you are wonderful to be there to support the family.

Condolences on the loss of your beloved Uncle. Prayers for you and your family at this difficult time!
post #41 of 44
Dearest Erin -- I am so sorry for your loss. Don't dread the funeral too much, though. I fainted at the hospital when my brother died. I zoned out completely for days and thought the funeral was going to be such torture that I begged a chaplain from the hospital to go with me. Surprise. The funeral was actually fun. I got to talk about my brother with other people who loved him and to see family I hadn't seen in years. It can work like that sometimes. All my condolences sweetheart.
post #42 of 44
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Thank you all again! Well, we finally got all the picture boards done. I am just praying things will be ok tomorrow and my aunt will be strong.
post #43 of 44
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Originally Posted by KitEKats4Eva!
Erin may your dear uncle rest in peace. I can only say that now he is no longer suffering, although you will all miss him terribly.

Life hasn't been easy for you lately, has it my dear?? Well, they say trouble comes in threes - things will soon look up for you, I suspect.

lol Well, I just got the news that my cobra health insurance will be over as of the 31st of December. I was informed today that I ran out of my unemployment benifits. This better be it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't handle anything else!!!!!!!!
post #44 of 44
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Thank you all for the vibes. Things are going pretty good for my aunt and family now. Better than expected!!! thanks!!!!
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