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Hello, I have an upcoming dilemma and I am not sure how it is going to work out! Right now my fiancee and I live with his sister. We have two cats, sibling red tabbys (one male, one female), that were given to her as an unexpected present when they were 8 weeks old. Now, they are about 8 months old. Naturally they are best friends and have the best time together. Well, at the end of December my finacee and I are getting our own place. His sister likes the cats, but has decided she wants to give them away. We are going to take one, b/c our new apt. will only allow one small pet. I am completley torn because they are both so great, in different ways, but in the end I think I will take the girl, b/c she is a little more lovable and also smaller and calmer. I can't bear the thought of separating them, though! Is this totally going to destroy them? I feel awful and if I could take them both I would, believe me, I love them so much! If his sister wanted to keep them both, that would be great too, but I know she just won't. I'd rather have one than none. It is hard for me to think about. I am afraid the cat we take will be quite lonely without her brother. Any advice?
Hello, I have an upcoming dilemma and I am not sure how it is going to work out! Right now my fiancee and I live with his sister. We have two cats, sibling red tabbys (one male, one female), that were given to her as an unexpected present when they were 8 weeks old. Now, they are about 8 months old. Naturally they are best friends and have the best time together. Well, at the end of December my finacee and I are getting our own place. His sister likes the cats, but has decided she wants to give them away. We are going to take one, b/c our new apt. will only allow one small pet. I am completley torn because they are both so great, in different ways, but in the end I think I will take the girl, b/c she is a little more lovable and also smaller and calmer. I can't bear the thought of separating them, though! Is this totally going to destroy them? I feel awful and if I could take them both I would, believe me, I love them so much! If his sister wanted to keep them both, that would be great too, but I know she just won't. I'd rather have one than none. It is hard for me to think about. I am afraid the cat we take will be quite lonely without her brother. Any advice?