Starting over once again

Oh my! what a weekend.
Friday i went out with a friend to do some shopping, went to the cinema and went out to an indian restaurant.
As soon as i get home i see blood all over the floor, (i dont need to go into detail as some of you know my family situtation) i called ben and asked him what i should do, his mother called an ambulance and the police was here.
My mother was admitted to hospital, she had 10 stiches on her head and a very bad black eye. Ben drove to frankfurt to be by my side he arrived at 4 am and i still hadnt had any sleep!
I gave my mother an option, for her to come and live with me, or to stay in this situation.

I give up going back to my parents, Dont worry im not together with ben he is just being a really good friend right now.
I have found a nice ohh soo lovely apartment, its one room and the kitchen is cut off, I have to get some paper work done this week and then I get my keys! THEN FINALLY I CAN LIVE ON MY OWN WHOHOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But yes right now im staying in my old house.

My mother has decided to stay there, untill she gets better.
I literally dont know what to do for her, i have told her i will be there for her and everything will be alright when she leaves my dad but she doesnt really seem to get it into her head that she doesnt deserve anything like this!

So yes, can anyone send vibes, prayers to my mother to get well, and get her head clear, and for me to start a new beggining.



How are you all by the way?

I am sending {{{vibes}}} and hope everything works out for you and your mother.

Oh, no, Fran! I'm certainly sending your mother, and you, good vibes. Are you going to be able to afford your own place? Did the police take your father away for 24 hours, or is that only mandatory in my "Land"? Or does he have diplomatic immunity in such a case?
How is that going to affect your plans to return to Australia?

I'm sorry to hear about your mom Fran. I think you are doing all you can and that's the best that anyone can ask of you.

It's tough that you have to be in the middle of all that nonsense and my heart goes out to you.

Does your father ever feel any remorse or does he figure it's his God-given right to treat her this way? If she were to press charges what would happen with him? Is he still working for an embassy and would fear of people knowing about him be enough to make him stop this abusive behaviour?

I'm sending you and your mother good vibes for the future!

Lots of good vibes coming from me too

This is so terrible to have happened, Fran. You and your mother are definitely in my prayers.

Sorry to hear of this turn of events, Fran. No way does your Mum -- or you, for that matter -- deserve this! Sending love and prayers for both of you, to figure out next steps, and get some stability in your lives -- whatever that takes.

Fran, I still remember one of you 1st posts about your Mom. It's a sad situation that she is in-hopefully when she leaves your dad will can imporve. Remember that she will be needing lots of support though.
Its exciting to read that you are getting a place of your own. What will be your plans once you are settled in??

Sending major vibes to you and your mom!!! I pray she has the courage to leave the situation!!!

I'm so sorry to hear about your mother. Thinking of both of you.

Thinking of you and your family fwan!

Sending MAJOR vibes to you both that this all works out.

Oh Fran...just sending you a big hug, and I will keep you and your mom in my thoughts and prayers.

sending you and your mum ((((vibes)))) hope she gets out of that situation as soon as poss.

Oh, Fran! I'm so sorry for you and your mother. I'm definitely sending hugs and big vibes your way, for both of you.

Oh Fran, you really have been having a time of it - BIG BIG hugs coming your way from me sweetie

thinking of you fran and sending you hugs too () () ()