I am just checking in again.. I posted on Friday that my resident Bella was having a hard time with my new girl Trixie coming into our home. I have done the introduction proecdures, gone slowly and both are spayed, separate everything food, litterboxes, etc.
So all weekend I stayed out of it.. went along w/ my business and just loved on both my sweet girls equally.. even tried playing w/ each and just acting like everything was normal
Trixie is so curious about Bella and wants to be friends
And she
's her momma alot and follows me around saying hi. Its the cutest. BUT Bella is just being soooo territorial!! She has turned into a
every time Trixie is in the room or at least with in 'her territory'. Bella has settled down a little since Friday when she was hissing when Trixie was in the room. Now Bella doesnt hiss unless Trix is within about 3 feet of her. But Trixie is soo friendly and is trying hard to not provoke her and will stay quite a few feet away if Bella gets upset. Everytime Bella hisses, Trixie just looks at her for a second and then lays down. She has never hissed back or gotten upset at Bella. Today Trix accidentally got too close to her (she was excited about some treats!) and Bella took a swa at her. Trix didnt respond but just backed up a little. Sometimes too I find Bella sitting at the entrace of the great room (which she sees as HER space) and not letting Trixie come in. BUT I want Trixie to come in..so its
for me right now.
Hissy told me I should keep my nose out of it and let them figure out who is Alpha.. but its hard.. there is nothing I can or should do right? Mostly I miss my sweet tender Bella who is
right now and barely wants to even cuddle with me or be sweet anymore. AND I feel bad for Trixie who is new and just wants friends. I hope it gets worked out
PS_ they are home by themselves ALL day today for the first time..yikes!
So all weekend I stayed out of it.. went along w/ my business and just loved on both my sweet girls equally.. even tried playing w/ each and just acting like everything was normal
Trixie is so curious about Bella and wants to be friends
Hissy told me I should keep my nose out of it and let them figure out who is Alpha.. but its hard.. there is nothing I can or should do right? Mostly I miss my sweet tender Bella who is
PS_ they are home by themselves ALL day today for the first time..yikes!