A friend is fostering a wonderful, sweet, and loving cat that she wants to adopt (neutered male just over a year old). She already has two cats, both males and both neutered (one is 8 years and the other around 3 or 4 years old). All three cats are from shelters and the oldest is declawed (declawed by previous owner).
The two previous cats get along wonderfully and have since they were first introduced to each other around a year or two ago. The foster cat gets along wonderfully with the middle cat, but the oldest cat just will not accept him. (My friend used the introduction process we suggest here and followed it to a T.)
Anyway, I thought my friend was exaggerating about the problem until I heard with my own ears this afternoon what happened. Old cat was sitting on the floor when foster cat walked by. Foster cat did nothing more than glance at old cat as he walked by. In response, old cat did the most blood-curdling scream you could imagine. No hissing, no swatting, but an awful screeching scream.
I'm stumped! My friend is hesitating to adopt this wonderful cat because old cat is so upset. Is there anything she can try at this point to make things better? (I hate the thought of taking her foster to PetsMart at this point because he has been with her for about 2 months now.)
The two previous cats get along wonderfully and have since they were first introduced to each other around a year or two ago. The foster cat gets along wonderfully with the middle cat, but the oldest cat just will not accept him. (My friend used the introduction process we suggest here and followed it to a T.)
Anyway, I thought my friend was exaggerating about the problem until I heard with my own ears this afternoon what happened. Old cat was sitting on the floor when foster cat walked by. Foster cat did nothing more than glance at old cat as he walked by. In response, old cat did the most blood-curdling scream you could imagine. No hissing, no swatting, but an awful screeching scream.
I'm stumped! My friend is hesitating to adopt this wonderful cat because old cat is so upset. Is there anything she can try at this point to make things better? (I hate the thought of taking her foster to PetsMart at this point because he has been with her for about 2 months now.)