Bradley needs some health vibes.....

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OK, this is a long one...

Bradley was on his father's insurance up until about a week ago. Since he is a serious Type 1 Diabetic, buying a plan on his own would cost about $600-$700/month. But his father cancelled the plan because it would be cheaper for HIM to go on his wife's health care plan through her new job at Home Depot. So, he basically left his diabetic son without healthcare (Bradley's job as a boat captain provides no health insurance).

Well, we found out what we thought was good news....he can come on my health insurance even though we're not married yet (as long as we've lived together and shared bills for 6 months- which we have- he can be added to my health insurance). Pretty cool, right? The problem is that my health insurance (and I didn't realize it until Bradley pointed it out) is very expensive compared to other plans (I get it through work). If I added Bradley, it would cost an additional $570/month.

So we're not sure what to do and I've never seen Bradley so worried. I could pay for his health insurance, but that would leave me with NO extra money for savings or other expenses. But he absoslutely CANNOT be without health insurance. If he had to go to the hospital again b/c of his diabetes (which is not at ALL unlikely unfortunately
), the treatment price would be astronomical without insurance. As it is, he has to spend about $100/month on diabetic care without insurance.

He has one other option. He can get a job working on a rescue boat crew. He'd work 7 days on and 7 days off. He'd have to pretty much live at the boat station every other week. The pay isn't great (he'd keep captaining on the weeks that he's off from the other job), but the health insurance is good. I told him he should consider it b/c he NEEDS insurance, but he doesn't want to have to live away from me every other week. I told him that right now he has to do what he has to do and I'm here for him no matter what.

Sorry this has been so long, but I wanted you to know what is going on. If you could please spare some vibes or say a prayer that we can find a solution to this (or if you know of any solutions), we would both be so very grateful. Most specifically, just please pray that he does not get sick now- that would probably be catastrophic at this point in time. Thanks guys- TCS is the best
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Isn't it a shame when health care is not affordable. Tehre are many people that are in jobs that they hate simply for the healthcare.

Lots of good vibes headed to both of you!
 

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Amy I can't even imagine how much of a predicament you must feel in at the moment. I can't offer any advice as I don't know the US healthcare system, but I will be thinking of you both and sending lots of good vibes your way
 

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Amy, I'm so sorry you and Bradley are having to go through this. It just makes no sense that affordable healthcare is so hard to come by. I'll be thinking of and praying for both of you.
 
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Thank you Karen
, Clare
, and Eileen
. I really appreciate this.

I know we'll figure something out, but seeing Bradley worried worries me. I appreciate your support y'all
 

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I'd put him on your insurance. You don't want him gone every other week, do you? That would put a strain on your relationship, the cost of insurance must be worth having him around. Unless he doesn't like his current job, then there are other benefits.

It's tough to struggle with this sort of finance, but the catastrophic cost of something going badly wrong is worth the peace of mind that monthly payment buys, isn't it?
 

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Amy i really hope things work out well for Bradley, but in the meantime why don't you put him onto your insurance until you try and find a cheaper one to take him on?!.

You know theres a lot of people who knock our health service here in the UK, but fortunatly we don't have this sort of problem


And tell Bradley not to worry because thats not going to help him either!
 

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Amy, none of us know your financial situation well enough to tell you what to do, but I will give you my opinion. If possible I would add him to your insurance. I understand the extra cost because my fiance covers me on his insurance. We had the same conditions as you guys and are classified as "domestic partners". I went through alot this past year as far as medical bills go. Thank goodness I was on his insurance and it covered everything. I just dropped contributing to my 401k for the time being because the extra money being gone was putting a little strain on things. The way I see it is that I am young and have plenty of time to contribute once I am in a better situation (finished with school and nursing). That isn't the view you should take of course in all situations, but in yours I think it applies. You might have to cut back a bit until you figure something else out, but if something happened and Bradley needed medical treatment you would be in the same situation anyway. I think that the peace of mind you will both have knowing he is insured is going to be worth it in the end.
 

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Do you not have some sort of state-run health insurance scheme? Like in the UK we have the National health Service? Big vibes coming your way
 

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Mega vibes for both of you, Amy, and especially that Bradley stays well through this "sorting out" period.
I'm certainly no expert, but Tanya's advice seems sound to me.
 

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I'm very sorry to hear of all of your troubles..I am sending many good vibes to you both!
 
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Thank you so much everyone for the vibes, prayers, AND excellent advice.

I agree with you Tanya that he should go on my insurance, at least for the time being. I told him I'd pay for it right now, but he doesn't like the idea of being dependent on me. So maybe I'll see if he'd go on my insurance and split the cost with me. That may be the only good solution for now. Regardless, he needs insurance ASAP! I don't like him going a day without it b/c his health is so fragile!
 

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Amy, how far away from you is the boat station if he were to take the rescue job? Would you be able to visit? I don't like the idea of you being apart, but you're right that he needs insurance.

Of course Bradley's health is in my prayers as well as a resolution to this problem.

One good thing, I remember when Bradley hadn't moved in with you yet. At least thats where he WANTS to be now!

Originally Posted by lionessrampant

Since this isn't IMO, I won't go off on how STUPID this country is about healthcare.

But I wish Bradley all the best!!!
I agree 100%
 

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Oh, Amy! What a terrible predicament. It's so unfortunate that you have to make a choice like that.

I don't know what you're able to do or what's available in your area, but is there any way that one of you could pick up a part-time job someplace that would provide more reasonable health insurance? My sister worked at a grocery store here for a long time because they provided reasonable health insurance through the union, even for part-timers.
 

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Amy, sorry to hear of your predicament. Hope you find a good solution soon. Sending lots of good vibes to both of you!
 

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I hope it works out..
that is so much money for health insurance
i mean i can understand why most people wouldnt be able to afford it!!
Here in germany it works a little different everyone has to have health insurance so..
well america makes me mad!! the way they fund things..


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You guys are so sweet :heart2. Thank you for all the good vibes and advice.

Still waiting for Bradley to get home from work, but hopefully tonight we can talk about it. I really want to put him on my insurance for now (Tari, there is no way I can get a part-time job with working full-time, being on-call, and taking graduate classes, but it was a good idea anyway
). I know we'll come up with a better plan eventually, but for now it sucks.

Want to know the kicker? The company I work for (it's a private company who is contracted by the Dept. of Defense)...their main business is as a health care company! And their employees still pay more than employees for most other companies. Talk about your horrible ironies
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I'm so sorry to hear about this Amy. I wish I had some kind of advice for you, but I don't know a THING about insurance. I'll be saying lots of prayers though and sending you both as many vibes as I can manage. I hope things work out.
 
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