My friend is getting married in November and moving to Pittsburgh (we are in arkansas), her bachelorette party is this Saturday. I was planning on attending but i found out that we are meeting at a girls house to do the gift thing and eat but the main event is to go out to bars/clubs. That doesnt sound appealing to me at all. I definatly dont want to go out b/c its just too much drama and i dont care to celebrate that way. I feel real bad b/c i dont want to go and i dont want to tell her that b/c it WILL hurt her feelings. I'm thinking about saying that i woke up sick saturday just to get out of it but i really dont want to regret my decision. If i just go to the girls house i'll catch all kinds of crap about not going out and will prolly feel pressured into going. I am just torn about what to do....i know that i dont want to go out to bars/clubs but i dont want to hurt her feelings being that shes moving in November.....
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10/19/05 at 4:01pm