Well it should come as no surprise, but I'm already getting way too attached to my little foster kitty, Jessie. The same thing happened with Claire. I really shouldn't foster. It's just too hard. Anyway, I'm going to see it through and keep her long enough to get her socialized. But, I've also decided to make a list of the reasons why I ABSOLUTELY CAN'T keep her and put it in writing her to remind myself. I really need you guys to help me stay strong!
Here's why:
1) Financial - with one senior kitty and one with a possible heart condition I need to be sure I have the money to provide care for them. I know that I can care for three cats on my budget. Any more than that would be pushing it.
2) Gracie - she hasn't been happy with Peter's presence in the household and it's taken 9 months for her to come to terms with the fact that he's staying. She's made it pretty clear that she doesn't like other cats.
3) Jessie is progressing well with her socialization and promises to be a sweet, snuggly little cat. She's very adoptable. Keeping her would go against the policy I've set for myself to only take in hard to adopt cats from now on.
For example, Jessie's brother, Jimmy, from a previous litter. He's about a year old now and still needs A LOT of socialization. We can't even touch him yet. There's a strong possibility I may end up with him a year or so down the road.
4) My committment to Claire (Pete's sis) - I'm the backup in case the elderly priest who adopted her ever feels he's no longer able to care for her. Hopefully, they'll have many happy years together but, if not, I want to be able to provide a home for her.
5) Wanting to share the joy - My three cats have brought me a lot of happiness and I've seen how much joy the cats we've found homes for have brought their "people." I keep telling myself it would be selfish to keep Jessie, knowing there's someone out there that just might need a sweet, pretty little tuxedo kitty. Besides, I have already have Gracie and she's a handful.
Sorry this is so long. I really needed to get this all out.
Thanks for listening for the umpteenth time!
Here's why:
1) Financial - with one senior kitty and one with a possible heart condition I need to be sure I have the money to provide care for them. I know that I can care for three cats on my budget. Any more than that would be pushing it.
2) Gracie - she hasn't been happy with Peter's presence in the household and it's taken 9 months for her to come to terms with the fact that he's staying. She's made it pretty clear that she doesn't like other cats.
3) Jessie is progressing well with her socialization and promises to be a sweet, snuggly little cat. She's very adoptable. Keeping her would go against the policy I've set for myself to only take in hard to adopt cats from now on.
For example, Jessie's brother, Jimmy, from a previous litter. He's about a year old now and still needs A LOT of socialization. We can't even touch him yet. There's a strong possibility I may end up with him a year or so down the road.
4) My committment to Claire (Pete's sis) - I'm the backup in case the elderly priest who adopted her ever feels he's no longer able to care for her. Hopefully, they'll have many happy years together but, if not, I want to be able to provide a home for her.
5) Wanting to share the joy - My three cats have brought me a lot of happiness and I've seen how much joy the cats we've found homes for have brought their "people." I keep telling myself it would be selfish to keep Jessie, knowing there's someone out there that just might need a sweet, pretty little tuxedo kitty. Besides, I have already have Gracie and she's a handful.
Sorry this is so long. I really needed to get this all out.
Thanks for listening for the umpteenth time!