This is about my only friends cat Tuxedo. Basically what I know is that his cat is not that healthy. Tuxedo is a black cat about 8 or 9 years old I think, and im pretty sure he's neutered. I have known my friend for about 5 years now and he has always had problems with money and stuff he only lives with his mom and they have lived in horrible houses most of there lives, like cockroach infested and fleas and mold. They now try to at least pick up after themselves, and there house is now cockroach,mold, and flea free! Well I have noticed over the years there cat has become sicker and sicker. See in the past year and a half they had 2 stray cats with him that were flea infested, and never had a vet checkup,bath, or been brushed. They are now gone and at a proper home and well. But Tuxedo is still in the same house, my friends. Now my friend loves his cat alot and hes really attatched to him, but my friend is not that responcible in that he never takes the cat to the vet or brushes it or gives it a bath. One time he had fleas and they put a flea collar on him and spread fleapowder all over the house, but never gave him a bath? Well anyway his litterbox is filled with diarrea, the cat vomits alot, it looks like mucus and brown chunks almost like #2, it has matted fur, long overcurved nails, and dental problems like bad tartar. I think it has breathing problems too it wheezes alot. My mom who used to work in an animal shelter offered him a discount on vet visits and a free bath because we knew about the money situation, well him and his mom never took the cat in and lost the discount paper somewhere. Now they DO have enough money to bring him to the vet, but its not on the top of there "priority list." my friend just doesnt realize he must go in, even though I have hinted to him nicely many times, and his grandmother who visits sometimes, has agreed with me, but she is too old to drive or help out. Someone once told me to report him. Now since im his only friend who knows about proper animal care I know if I secretly reported the situation he would know it's me, and due to the fact he's my only friend and he is going through a stressful situation as well, it would be bad for the both of us I think. If they were willing to take the cat in I would be glad to go with them and help out, but they would probably think the vet bill is overpriced and not take the cat in. I will ask on that but im telling you I doubt it will happen. I asked to give the cat a bath and his mom got mad at me? So any NICE ideas?