Thanks in advance for the help.
I have a bf who's a great guy, and we've been going pretty strong for half a year or so. No problems with anything, and we see a lot of each other, despite busy schedules on both ends.
The one thing we really have friction over is that he is really a pretty bad neat freak. He has to wear certain clothes out of the house, certain clothes when he lounges around the house (like on the sofa), & a different set to bed. Otherwise, he's not as neurotic or OCD as I may be making him out to be, and is a great guy. But he never grew up with animals. You can tell it bothers him to see me pick up my cat and then cuddle her, just because of the cat hair & the fact that she may have been in the litterbox several hours ago. I have 2 cats and always have been a real animal person; I wouldn't want to give them up. I started locking them out of the bedroom just to at least have some control over the hair issue; plus I don't really like having them track litter in our sleeping area either, but I do miss cuddling with the big furballs at night.
So the issue is not so much with the younger cat, who is pretty clean. The bigger cat is adorable, but I must admit that she is not the cleanest cat, mostly because she is overweight and can't lick herself in "all the right places". I do what I can--I adopted her fat, so I'm putting her on a diet, I wash her occasionally when she gets pretty dirty (& she tolerates that very well), and even wipe her behind with wet naps every so often (embarrassing, huh?). She is not horribly smelly, but there is a scent, and I can tell it does bother my bf if I pick her up at all, but she is a very needy lap cat and wants attention all the time. If we are on the couch, she will climb on us even if we block her, and try to go to sleep on top of us.
The other issue is that she seems to shed more than ordinary cats (certainly more than the young one). I know that sometimes this is a deficiency in their diet, and try to give her fish oil supplements for good hair & skin growth, but she still seems to shed a lot. Add to the fact that she can't properly groom herself, and it causes hair to go everywhere. I am constantly cleaning the floor & using lint rollers; I also brush her twice daily; but she still continues.
Any advice on other things I can do? I realize the problem is half my boyfriend's neurotic germaphobia, & half my cat's issues.... but I'd like to keep both around, and there are thoughts of possibly living together in the future. The bf is a good guy and doesn't hate the cats, he just isn't used to that sort of lifestyle. We get along in all other respects and have a great relationship. And the two cats are 2 of the best I've ever had, gentle demeanors & very sweet, loving animals.
I have a bf who's a great guy, and we've been going pretty strong for half a year or so. No problems with anything, and we see a lot of each other, despite busy schedules on both ends.
The one thing we really have friction over is that he is really a pretty bad neat freak. He has to wear certain clothes out of the house, certain clothes when he lounges around the house (like on the sofa), & a different set to bed. Otherwise, he's not as neurotic or OCD as I may be making him out to be, and is a great guy. But he never grew up with animals. You can tell it bothers him to see me pick up my cat and then cuddle her, just because of the cat hair & the fact that she may have been in the litterbox several hours ago. I have 2 cats and always have been a real animal person; I wouldn't want to give them up. I started locking them out of the bedroom just to at least have some control over the hair issue; plus I don't really like having them track litter in our sleeping area either, but I do miss cuddling with the big furballs at night.
So the issue is not so much with the younger cat, who is pretty clean. The bigger cat is adorable, but I must admit that she is not the cleanest cat, mostly because she is overweight and can't lick herself in "all the right places". I do what I can--I adopted her fat, so I'm putting her on a diet, I wash her occasionally when she gets pretty dirty (& she tolerates that very well), and even wipe her behind with wet naps every so often (embarrassing, huh?). She is not horribly smelly, but there is a scent, and I can tell it does bother my bf if I pick her up at all, but she is a very needy lap cat and wants attention all the time. If we are on the couch, she will climb on us even if we block her, and try to go to sleep on top of us.
The other issue is that she seems to shed more than ordinary cats (certainly more than the young one). I know that sometimes this is a deficiency in their diet, and try to give her fish oil supplements for good hair & skin growth, but she still seems to shed a lot. Add to the fact that she can't properly groom herself, and it causes hair to go everywhere. I am constantly cleaning the floor & using lint rollers; I also brush her twice daily; but she still continues.
Any advice on other things I can do? I realize the problem is half my boyfriend's neurotic germaphobia, & half my cat's issues.... but I'd like to keep both around, and there are thoughts of possibly living together in the future. The bf is a good guy and doesn't hate the cats, he just isn't used to that sort of lifestyle. We get along in all other respects and have a great relationship. And the two cats are 2 of the best I've ever had, gentle demeanors & very sweet, loving animals.