another chapter closing in my life

hey cat friends,

well today i got some good news but yet sad at the sametime its like saying goodbye to Dad for the last time even thow hes always in my heart and personal items that i have.

I got a call from the realtor tonight and the offer has been excepted and the closing is in thirty days my Dads place sold im really sad over this but it has been so hard over the past two years keeping it rented people wouldnt pay and then mess it up The only good renter i had was Bill the older gentelmen who lived there a year but he got real sick and moved out and the place had to be painted and cause of smoke from the pipe but to make a long story short ive been so worried over the past two weeks cause im out of work for 6 weeks and ive been worried about money but belive me this isnt alot im getting i have prayed so hard about the place selling and it did. prayers are answered i also almost lost my friend from work this week CJ was on life support and a coma ive been back forth all week with his mom Pat from work yesturday he came out of the coma they did not expect him to live another mircle this week im sorry to carry on but needed to let some of this go i will be making a donation to anonymous source i cant say its between me and the lord if he can do this for me then my call is to do something for someone else as Dad would also want it this way take care guys

thanks for listing to me

Oh hon! it sounds like you have been on a real roller coaster ride!..I hope things turn around for you soon.

Rhonda,

I can only imagine how hard it is letting go of your Dad's place. You have to remember and know that they are only material things. They are not your memories and no one can take those from you. Your father left behind an investment in the form of his house for you. He wanted you to be benefited by it, not burdened by it. It sounds as if it is a blessing that it is coming at this time of your life. Think of that as a gift from your Dad.

Originally Posted by captiva

Rhonda,

I can only imagine how hard it is letting go of your Dad's place. You have to remember and know that they are only material things. They are not your memories and no one can take those from you. Your father left behind an investment in the form of his house for you. He wanted you to be benefited by it, not burdened by it. It sounds as if it is a blessing that it is coming at this time of your life. Think of that as a gift from your Dad.

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thanks chris (cap)
im alright just feel like im saying goodbye again i know you guys get tired of hearing about Dad thats why i quit talking about him so much but loosing him is something you never forget its like loosing a child for those's who have children or a mother or father or any loved one for that matter i guess we just learn to live with it.I started a grief recovery class last month with the church something i should of done along time ago but its never to late there are some in the class who loss loved ones 8 years ago this class really seems to help i wish i could get my husband to go with me siance he lost his sister but i guess he is not ready yet anyway thanks for the reply and by the way i didnt post this thread for what i was getting more less to let this out and most of you in here know from my past about dad and from all of this im trying to help someone out
take care