hello, I've read the introducing new cats sticky and used the methods mentioned
however I seem to have an odd situation on my hands.
my four year old neutered male now has an insatiable desire to roam outside, to the point where he has to be fed on the porch and he refuses to use either of the litter boxes in the house, actually getting him in the house is a task in itself.
when the new kitten 6 months old, un-neutered goes to play with him, he'll hiss, and his fur will stand up on end and he'll make all the usual attack postures, but what ends up happening is the kitten chases him around, and the older cat goes into a panic, he actually jumped up onto the screen of the door looking to get out. i was expecting a bit of a tussle but he avoids all contact with the kitten whatso ever. when the kitten is downstairs and he is in the house, he simply sniffs around, tail swaying back and forth rapidly and then leaves.
any ideas, i was trying to keep the older cat inside by cleaning the door with citrus scented cleaner, but it seems that he just tries to escape through the windows or anywhere else.
i guess what my question is, how do i ease his anxiety so i can establish some type of contact and eventual harmony between him and the kitten. also i can't figure out why my 4 year old male is so terrified of a young kitten who seems to mean no harm. any advice or suggestions would be welcome
however I seem to have an odd situation on my hands.
my four year old neutered male now has an insatiable desire to roam outside, to the point where he has to be fed on the porch and he refuses to use either of the litter boxes in the house, actually getting him in the house is a task in itself.
when the new kitten 6 months old, un-neutered goes to play with him, he'll hiss, and his fur will stand up on end and he'll make all the usual attack postures, but what ends up happening is the kitten chases him around, and the older cat goes into a panic, he actually jumped up onto the screen of the door looking to get out. i was expecting a bit of a tussle but he avoids all contact with the kitten whatso ever. when the kitten is downstairs and he is in the house, he simply sniffs around, tail swaying back and forth rapidly and then leaves.
any ideas, i was trying to keep the older cat inside by cleaning the door with citrus scented cleaner, but it seems that he just tries to escape through the windows or anywhere else.
i guess what my question is, how do i ease his anxiety so i can establish some type of contact and eventual harmony between him and the kitten. also i can't figure out why my 4 year old male is so terrified of a young kitten who seems to mean no harm. any advice or suggestions would be welcome