Unprovoked Biting

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One of my cats will bite the other at least once a day. He was wildly aggressive toward other cats (but wildly affectionate toward people) when we took him in, and would initiate fights with any other cats he saw. They could just be sitting a few feet off,and he'd growl, hiss, and then run over and start slapping and biting them, usually getting his eager butt stomped into a fine kitty powder. (this only happened twice, both times he'd snuck out. The first time I did not realize it until I heard him growling, and the second time I was not home, but bf was). He would even try to fight his reflection in the mirror. His favorite thing was to be as big a jerk as possible to our resident cat ( it was almost a miracle to NOT hear her screaming in pain as he randomly decided she needed teeth and claws in her neck and body for breathing the same air as him when they were in the same room), and as a result, they spent lots of time seperated from each other.

Now, a year later, he has calmed down a lot, but still seems to think that it is his main purpose in life to terrorize our other cat. She could be doing anything, from simply walking to sleeping to using the litterbox, and he will stalk her like prey, chattering, pounce on her, and bite her, provoking a fight. She always beats him and moves to higher ground, and he runs away meowing. While he is taking the brunt (and deserves it for being such a jerk) of the consequence of fighting, I would love to put a stop to this behavior once and for all before it goes beyond him being scratched up and half-shaved.

They are both fully indoor, and have both been fixed for a quite a few months. They each get hours of petting and playtime a day. One is fed in the livingroom,and one in the kitchen. They get the same foods, plus treats. I buy a few of each toy so that there are enough to go around No one bothers anyone else at mealtime. Both dig into their respective bowls, clean up, and are off to do whatever. Everything is fine, except that for some reason, he can't seem to stop randomly pouncing on her and sinking his teeth into her spine or randomly diving at her and biting her head when she is grooming herself. She used to be totally laid back, but has become skittish and paranoid due to his terrorizing her.

Does anyone have any tips on how I can fix this problem once and for all besides getting rid of one of them? He is ALWAYS the provoker, and the attacks are so random that I am very sure there is not one external thing causing it.
 

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Sounds like he wasn't socialized with other kittens when he was a kitten. He doesn't know how to behave around his kind.
 
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Originally Posted by Kai Bengals

Sounds like he wasn't socialized with other kittens when he was a kitten. He doesn't know how to behave around his kind.
i'm very sure he wasnt. he was a rescued stray. we got him when he was about 5-6 months old (only going from size, as the only thing we or the people we got him from knew of him was that he frequently went to their yard and was almost constantly chewed and slobbered on by a dog, although i believe it was playing, because it was about 1000 times his size and couldve easily harmed him if it meant to.), but he is huge now. i was hoping that there would be some way to stop this behavior, as we like both of them, and do not want her to be uncomfortable doing things as simple as grooming herself or walking through the house.
 

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The two will iron it out over time. It just takes time for them to figure it out. It sounds like a typical stray kitten behavior. Often the momcats are trapped or the kittens are taken away to early to learn socialization (because the humans feel the younger the kittens are to be captured) the easier to place they are. Makes me crazy sometimes how that thinking goes-

At any rate, that coupled with a late neutering is causing this type of social interaction and if there is no bloodshed, than I wouldn't separate the cats at all- because how else are they going to learn how to get along if you keep interrupting their process?
 

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You may have a tough road ahead of you with him. Kitten socialization is extremely important and lack of it is well known to cause all sorts of behavior problems, as you're witnessing unfortunately.
I'm sure there are some experienced folks on here that will have some tips for you to try.
A couple of things I can suggest, is to not make a big fuss over his misbehaviors, just silently correct him or isolate him for a time out. He may be doing some of it for a reaction from you guys.
You might also try the feli-way comfort zone diffuser. It may settle him down a little.
I would clip his claws back and leave your other cat with sharp ones. This might sound cruel, but when he gets the short end of the stick in a few fights, he might decide it's not worth it anymore.

Just a couple of ideas...I hope someone can offer better solutions and you can get it resolved.
 
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Originally Posted by hissy

The two will iron it out over time. It just takes time for them to figure it out. It sounds like a typical stray kitten behavior. Often the momcats are trapped or the kittens are taken away to early to learn socialization (because the humans feel the younger the kittens are to be captured) the easier to place they are. Makes me crazy sometimes how that thinking goes-

At any rate, that coupled with a late neutering is causing this type of social interaction and if there is no bloodshed, than I wouldn't separate the cats at all- because how else are they going to learn how to get along if you keep interrupting their process?
There is bloodshed still, but mostly from him, and usually to the nose. Before, i seperated them because the girl constantly had bald, bloody, and scabby patches because he wouldnt keep his claws out of her. The weirdest part of this is that she was here before him, and was rescued as a stray at 4 weeks, and she has none of those problems. She mostly keeps to herself where other cats are concerned, and prefers to watch them from a decent height or play with them rather than provoke fights.

He was 5-6 months old when we rescued him. Something probably happened to him that caused him to be seperated from his mother too early in the wild. I severely doubt it was tnr, as spay/neuter is not very widespread in this area. Also, he is no longer a kitten, is about three times her size, and far more muscular than her, and I do not want her getting hurt. This has been going on for a long time now. Will I have to wait years and pay a bunch of vet bills for injuries/infections before this is resolved?

Because his terrorizing has made her skittish, and because his running toward her is always with intention to bite, I honestly do not see an end in sight for this without intervention. Is there nothing other than giving him open season on her that I can do to help this situation?
 

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You might find that completely separating the cats for a minimum of two weeks and then slowly reintroducing them is the best way to go. The separation will help the aggressor "unlearn" his desire to stalk and attack the victim and will give the victim a chance to feel relaxed for a while.
 
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