When the one-year-old skinny Sheba entered our lives a year ago, she quickly took over as dominant (or so I thought) over the 14 and 15 pound macho males in the household. That is, she took the preferred spot in my bed beside me just to the left - the best spot for the easiest petting. If Red Cat was in that spot getting petted before she came to bed, he would look over his shoulder repeatedly to make sure she wasn't coming. She would chase Purdy off the bed and he had to sleep elsewhere, though in recent months she allows him on the bed provided to sleeps at my feet. If one of the others was in my lap in the computer, dining, or sewing rooms and she came near, they would jump out of my lap and leave, allowing her the prime realty. One year later that is still the case.
But I've noticed something else. When it comes to food, she seems to be at the bottom of the ladder. She has a different food than the boys, who eat a prescription hypo-allergenic product. So I've been feeding her in a different room. Problem is, Purdy likes her food better than his own. So if I'm not paying close enough attention, he comes into the computer room and eats her food. And she lets him! If he makes any indication that he wants her food, she just leaves. (Red Cat is too busy eating both his own food and Purdy's in the sewing room to pay attention to Sheba's food, though if he found it, he'd eat that, too.)
So what gives? Are there two different dominance things going on, one for lovin' and another for food? Or would it be considered a territorial thing with her claiming me as her "territory" (no matter what room I'm in)? This is confusing. It was so much simpler while I thought she was dominant and that was that.
But I've noticed something else. When it comes to food, she seems to be at the bottom of the ladder. She has a different food than the boys, who eat a prescription hypo-allergenic product. So I've been feeding her in a different room. Problem is, Purdy likes her food better than his own. So if I'm not paying close enough attention, he comes into the computer room and eats her food. And she lets him! If he makes any indication that he wants her food, she just leaves. (Red Cat is too busy eating both his own food and Purdy's in the sewing room to pay attention to Sheba's food, though if he found it, he'd eat that, too.)
So what gives? Are there two different dominance things going on, one for lovin' and another for food? Or would it be considered a territorial thing with her claiming me as her "territory" (no matter what room I'm in)? This is confusing. It was so much simpler while I thought she was dominant and that was that.