My boyfriend and I had a talk just a couple of days ago about trying to spend more quality time together and what I feel that means to me...etc etc..
Well I had to work today and he didn't so he went out golfing with one of his buddies. No prob I figure..we'll see eachother at dinnertime. I get home and his friend is here..and I say "so what are we doing tonight" and he says "My buddy and I are going fishing". I was annoyed at that point...but I thought well we'll still have dinner together. So I ended up cooking while they ate it all and left me with the dishes to clean up. But I thought..I don't want to be steamed, and let this ruin my night so I rented a movie and thought..well when he comes home we'll hang out....WRONG..
They came back and cooked up fish in my kitchen..made a mess and kept bugging me to eat some (they know I'm working towards becoming a vegetarian)..then he tells me he's going to a bonfiire and that I can go and that can be our quality time. No!! that doens't count..I see quality time is us alone..talking or just doing something we mutally enjoy.
When he left I was visibly PO'd at him and he was putting the guilt trip on me "don't be that way"...blah blah blah. I think I have every right to be annoyed..but then again I'm irriated right now and I might need a reality check
Just needed to vent that out to my girlfriends!!, I wanted to call my mom but it's after midnight her time
Well I had to work today and he didn't so he went out golfing with one of his buddies. No prob I figure..we'll see eachother at dinnertime. I get home and his friend is here..and I say "so what are we doing tonight" and he says "My buddy and I are going fishing". I was annoyed at that point...but I thought well we'll still have dinner together. So I ended up cooking while they ate it all and left me with the dishes to clean up. But I thought..I don't want to be steamed, and let this ruin my night so I rented a movie and thought..well when he comes home we'll hang out....WRONG..
They came back and cooked up fish in my kitchen..made a mess and kept bugging me to eat some (they know I'm working towards becoming a vegetarian)..then he tells me he's going to a bonfiire and that I can go and that can be our quality time. No!! that doens't count..I see quality time is us alone..talking or just doing something we mutally enjoy.
When he left I was visibly PO'd at him and he was putting the guilt trip on me "don't be that way"...blah blah blah. I think I have every right to be annoyed..but then again I'm irriated right now and I might need a reality check
Just needed to vent that out to my girlfriends!!, I wanted to call my mom but it's after midnight her time