First of all I want to thank all of you that responded to my other thread. Slight change of plans.
I'm not going to be moving after some serious consideration as it will be too stressful on myself and the cats.
As most of you guessed
the whole thing had to do with Brandon and I, though Im still not going to go into much detail. Please understand that some things said are best left off the internet
There basically has been an utter lack of communication.
Now instead of me moving out, he is staying at his parents and we are going to give this one try. I spoke to my therapist who talked some sense into me to not up and move without thinking because I really hadn't. Thank God for people who know what they are talking about
He has recommended a relationship therapist and we are going to go. Brandon is also going to speak to someone by himself. Until we start sorting this out, he will stay at his parents.
I have no idea how this is going to go or how any of that even works. This leads to my questions. Has anyone been to a relationship therapist? How do they go about talking to you? Is there a general time people see them or is it like other therapy where you might be there for years (me!)?
Thank you if you have any ideas! I hate jumping into things without a clue what to expect
And thank you for taking the time to read this and being there for me when you didn't know what was happening
I couldn't ask for better friends!
Ashley
As most of you guessed
Now instead of me moving out, he is staying at his parents and we are going to give this one try. I spoke to my therapist who talked some sense into me to not up and move without thinking because I really hadn't. Thank God for people who know what they are talking about
I have no idea how this is going to go or how any of that even works. This leads to my questions. Has anyone been to a relationship therapist? How do they go about talking to you? Is there a general time people see them or is it like other therapy where you might be there for years (me!)?
Thank you if you have any ideas! I hate jumping into things without a clue what to expect
And thank you for taking the time to read this and being there for me when you didn't know what was happening
Ashley