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Hardest day of my life...

post #1 of 18
Thread Starter 
Well, today Alex turns 5 years old. And I can't be with him. This hurts more than I could possibly describe. I've tried so hard to stop the flood gates over the last few days... God alone knows how I'll cope at work today.
post #2 of 18

Thinking of you...
post #3 of 18
I can only imagine how you must feel.
Don't be afraid to let yourself blubber if you have to. Perhaps you could even call in sick to work and take a day to just let it all out? I'm a huge supporter of "mental health days". Sometimes you just need to take a time-out from the daily grind and let yourself focus on what's bothering you.
Hugs from my Emma, and Oliver!az
post #4 of 18
Heh--my Emma typed the AZ at the end of that post. Either she wants to go to Arizona, or that's kitty-kat for "I'm sorry you're sad"
post #5 of 18
Sending good thoughts and hugs your way.
post #6 of 18
So sorry to hear that. I hope that you can get through the day with as little trauma as possible, sending good vibes your way too.
post #7 of 18
I'm also sending you big hugs
post #8 of 18
I'm so sorry. That "mental health day" sounds like a very good idea; spend today crying (because crying is a very good thing!) or doing something to cheer you up. You're in my thoughts .
post #9 of 18
Hugs for you. I'm sorry. As a mother, I know how hard today will be for you. I'll be thinking of you.
post #10 of 18
I don't know the right words to comfort or ease your pain, all I can offer is this......
post #11 of 18
Emma, I think we all want to enfold you in a big hug and let you know we're all here for you.
post #12 of 18
Originally Posted by kittylover4ever
Emma, I think we all want to enfold you in a big hug and let you know we're all here for you.

post #13 of 18
know what your going through,my thoughts are with you.
post #14 of 18
Hugs to you, Emma!
post #15 of 18
I am so sorry!
post #16 of 18
Awww Emma!
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post #18 of 18
Thread Starter 
I've just come back to view the lounge.... and I just want to say thankyou You're the best! I got to speak to Alex on the phone (and he told me all about the presents he got: a bike, plastic bugs, cars, plastic bugs, a BBQ party, plastic bugs, a swimming trip, plastic bugs....) Whoever came up with the plastic bugs really struck gold on that one I think! He sounds really happy - though he broke my heart when he asked me why I wasn't there. But I said I'd see him in the holidays (about 3 weeks time) and that I'd bring him something else - as well as the present I sent him for Friday.

Love you all lots
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