Well... every year we have three christmases... usually my grandma and my uncle do it at thanksgiving...
(she did my mom's and my birthday on mothers day though we both are in june)
the second is with Scott's (the moms boyfriend) Fathers family... (the two great grandparents, his parents, his dads siblings, their wives, their kids.) Where gifts are exchanged... usually more expensive things for the kids (theres four of scott's uncles that are under 15, and a 4 year old and a new baby) and then more practical stuff for everyone else. (Gloria always buys me dressy/dress up/dress clothes because she is evil and cant fathom that I dont like to dress up/wear dressy clothes/dresses)
and then the last one is with his mom's family.. which consists of (in my perspective) one great grandma, his parents, and her siblings and their husbands and their kids. :P
Last year, anyways... we didnt know what to do.. usually at the third christmas we just draw random presents out of a bag.
so my mom was like.."oh I know! I'll buy discounted plain ball ornaments and make you work as a slave and decorate them all!"
and so it was...
so last year we gave everyone homemade christmas ornaments. My grandma and the great grandmas got pertyful andgel ones with a bow and a bell... all of their children got ones with their names on it... and everyone else just picked whatever in the crap they wanted.