Sorry I haven't posted alot. It's been rough getting settled in. I have been having problems with my "supposed" best friend across the street.
She's ALWAYS over here everyday, eating my food, drinking my soda, smoking my cigarettes and frankly, it's pissed me off..
Last week I offered to pay her $15/month if she let me use her washer and dryer to do laundry. At the time she was fine with it. A couple days later she came over here crying saying they dont have any food in the house and said instead of paying her the $15, to have me buy her like $100 in groceries off my food stamps... (yes I get food stamps, Im not working yet). That totally threw me for a loop. Of course I said no, I can't afford that even if I am on goverment assistance.I asked her last week if I could come over and do laundry and she told me I could but I would have to stay outside because her husband was off work and SHE not him, but SHE didn't want anyone over. :censor::censor::censor: Im not standing outside in 100 degree heat to do laundry! Then I started to come down with a cold and asked her for some advil for my headache, and she made the comment that she had it all last week. (She was over here the whole time with a cold?!) Then I am getting paid $50 by my landlord to put in my carpet, which is cool with me, I could use the money. She caught wind of it and wants to help me and split the money, so she can by face wash and make-up. (I thought she needed food?!) And Then today she came over here sat her happy ass in my house and criticized how hyper my 3 1/2 yr old is and how sweet, neat and clean her son is. I finally got fed up with it and told her "At least my son doesn't cry over a dirty look" She just laughed it off and I was being serious. My phone rang and it was my friend that helped me move asking me if I wanted to help him go pick up his new truck. She answered the phone like it was her house and called him a nasty name and handed me the phone. The only reason she came over was not to visit, or see me or the kids, but was to find out when I was doing the carpet so she can split it with me. I never offered to split it nor did I ask her to help in the first place. She got mad at me today because when she was over here I ignored her and stayed on the computer or phone the whole time, hoping she would leave.
Im getting very upset with her about all of this. She doesn't even call before she comes over and if my door isnt locked, she would walk right in w/o knocking first. So I make sure I lock my door at all times. I want SO bad to just go off on her and tell her how mad she has made me but she is the one who is going to be babysitting while I work for a couple weeks.
Oh I forgot! I told her I have a Dr. appointment wed morning and asked if she could watch my son for an hour or so and she told me she would "let me know" because her husband is off work, so I dont know if I can even rely on her to babysit while I work. She promised myself and my mom she would help with this and that when she found out I was moving but now it seems like the only way she will do anything is if I pay her or buy her food. I could understand if it was me bringing food for my son to eat while she watched him but its not.
I just dont know what to do. I have done everything but just lay into her and Im afraid Im just going to have to let her have it!
Does anyone have any advice on what I should do?