I have 2 female friends that I am very close to, and I am considering cutting both of them out of my life for good!
The first one is going through a custody battle with her husband, and I know he will be back in the house by this time next week. She is f-ing up her life completely, doing drugs, having affairs, selling drugs and alienating everyone that really cares for her. She said she needed me as a character witness, but I cannot lie in court, so I have been dodging her subpeona. I told her if she would not subpeona me, I would do what I could. Having my name on legal papers of any kind could put my professional license in jeopardy if it comes out that she is doing all this crazy stuff, even though I have not been around any of it, or participated in it. I am on a probationary license over an assault charge tha I had in a state that has no self defnese laws, so I was convicted because I came out on top in defending myself from a crazed male crackhead. I stand to lose everything I have worked so hard for. She is ignoring my phone calls, but when I called on a number she did not recognize, she answers the phone. She says she may not need me, but since I live so close to the courthouse, I can be there in a few minutes if she does. So she is expecting me to get up, be ready, and run down there at a moment's notice. Not only are we about to be hit by a hurricane, but one of our dearest friends is coming up from GA with his truck in case we have to make a run for it, we won't have to leave everything behind, and he will take the cats with him if we need to get them out of harm's way. A true friend.
This is the girl I went to pick up by the side of the road last year during a category 2 hurricane and nearly got blown off a bridge!
The second one is a girl I became close with in massage school, and got her a job with me after she graduated a little behind me. I have let her borrow my $600 massage chair several times, even though she nearly ruined the upholstery the first time by not folding it up and putting it in the case correctly. Read the *amn directions for crying out loud! I put the book in her hand and told her to use it! She is using it today for an event that we were to do together, even though she got the invitation. She did not say why she decided to go it alone. She is in practice for herself, and I have gone out of my way to help her, even down to giving her a bottle of massage oil when her business was slow and she could not afford to buy any. I asked her if she could stop by a store for me when she brings my chair back today, and she said she did not have time. She tried to get out of bringing my chair back today, even though I told her I would be needing it tonight. That was the deal when I told her she could use it.
I love these girls, and I never did anything I didn't want to for either of them, but I am really getting sick of them blowing me off at their convenience. Any thoughts?
The first one is going through a custody battle with her husband, and I know he will be back in the house by this time next week. She is f-ing up her life completely, doing drugs, having affairs, selling drugs and alienating everyone that really cares for her. She said she needed me as a character witness, but I cannot lie in court, so I have been dodging her subpeona. I told her if she would not subpeona me, I would do what I could. Having my name on legal papers of any kind could put my professional license in jeopardy if it comes out that she is doing all this crazy stuff, even though I have not been around any of it, or participated in it. I am on a probationary license over an assault charge tha I had in a state that has no self defnese laws, so I was convicted because I came out on top in defending myself from a crazed male crackhead. I stand to lose everything I have worked so hard for. She is ignoring my phone calls, but when I called on a number she did not recognize, she answers the phone. She says she may not need me, but since I live so close to the courthouse, I can be there in a few minutes if she does. So she is expecting me to get up, be ready, and run down there at a moment's notice. Not only are we about to be hit by a hurricane, but one of our dearest friends is coming up from GA with his truck in case we have to make a run for it, we won't have to leave everything behind, and he will take the cats with him if we need to get them out of harm's way. A true friend.
This is the girl I went to pick up by the side of the road last year during a category 2 hurricane and nearly got blown off a bridge!
The second one is a girl I became close with in massage school, and got her a job with me after she graduated a little behind me. I have let her borrow my $600 massage chair several times, even though she nearly ruined the upholstery the first time by not folding it up and putting it in the case correctly. Read the *amn directions for crying out loud! I put the book in her hand and told her to use it! She is using it today for an event that we were to do together, even though she got the invitation. She did not say why she decided to go it alone. She is in practice for herself, and I have gone out of my way to help her, even down to giving her a bottle of massage oil when her business was slow and she could not afford to buy any. I asked her if she could stop by a store for me when she brings my chair back today, and she said she did not have time. She tried to get out of bringing my chair back today, even though I told her I would be needing it tonight. That was the deal when I told her she could use it.
I love these girls, and I never did anything I didn't want to for either of them, but I am really getting sick of them blowing me off at their convenience. Any thoughts?
