Hi everybody,
I'm brand new here and would really love to get some advice. This came out a bit long, so please bear with me. I live in a desert area where there are many stray cats. So I currently have 7 cats (5 boys and 2 girls), ranging in ages from 6 - 1 years. Six of these kitties came from my own back yard, the 7th from a shelter. All are indoor kitties, all are spayed/neutered.
Early this year a stray white female cat started hanging out every day in my back yard. After awhile I started putting food and water out for her, and then she basically lived in my yard almost 24/7. Then she started letting me pet her, more and more, especially when I was bringing her food. I started calling her Nadia. I thought very hard about adopting her, but when I adopted my 7th cat in 2004 I swore to myself "This is the LAST one!" Plus my oldest cat Lily is sensitive and neurotic and already doesn't like having so many other cats in the house.
Not surprisingly, Nadia turned up pregnant. What did surprise me is that she gave birth literally on my back doorstep. The nest was only a few feet away from my back door, and not in a good place - not secluded or protected at all. A few hours after the kittens were born I decided to bring the whole family into my house (my bedroom, seperate from my other kitties) with the idea that I could socialize the kittens (there are 4 of them) and find homes for them, and adopt Nadia myself. Nadia hissed and spit at me a bit when I moved everybody, but she let me do it.
Okay so, now the kittens (all boys) are 7 weeks old. They are pretty well socialized, I think. They are scheduled to go to a small no-kill shelter when they turn 8 weeks old on the 16th (this is the same place where I got my one shelter kitty, it's a nice place and they have a good rate of adoption).
Question: should I keep one of the kittens?
Nadia was fairly tame when I brought her in, but she really regressed in those first few weeks. She will not let me pet her anymore, she hisses at me all the time, and she does not like me touching or handling the kittens (though she minds it less now that they are older). I'm sure most of this has to do with her being a very protective new mother.
Here's my thinking in favor of keeping a kitten. Nadia was very upset at being put in captivity, and she's still not crazy about it. I cannot introduce her to my other kitties until she is tame and has gone to see the vet. That means she'll be living alone in my bedroom, probably for weeks at least. Maybe I'm projecting, but I just think it would be too hard on her to be cooped up alone in this strange place, losing all of her babies in one fell swoop. If she could keep one of her babies with her, I think she would be happier and I wouldn't feel so guilty leaving her alone for most of the day.
And yes, I admit, I have gotten massively attached to the kittens and the thought of giving all 4 of them away to strangers is tearing me up. Keeping a kitten would be harder on Lily and my other kitties, but they have adjusted before and can probably do so again if I give them lots of extra love and attention.
On the other hand, I think keeping a kitten with Nadia means that aggressive-protective maternal behavior of hers would continue for quite awhile. So it would probably take much longer for her to tame up again. Plus it would be easier on my own cats to only have to deal with 1 new kitty instead of 2.
Of course I could release Nadia outside again if she's really unhappy, but I can't do that till she's spayed, and I can't get her spayed till she's tame.
So there's my dilemma. It may not sound like much, but I've been agonizing over this decision like crazy. I want to do whatever is best for my cats, for Nadia, and of course for the kittens, but I just don't know what that is.
One final question. My house is a little over 1500 square feet, plus I have a small screened porch that I leave open whenever weather permits. How many cats is too many for that sized living space? Or am I already there?
If you've read this far, thank you very much. Any advice whatsoever would be greatly appreciated.
~Lilydilly
I'm brand new here and would really love to get some advice. This came out a bit long, so please bear with me. I live in a desert area where there are many stray cats. So I currently have 7 cats (5 boys and 2 girls), ranging in ages from 6 - 1 years. Six of these kitties came from my own back yard, the 7th from a shelter. All are indoor kitties, all are spayed/neutered.
Early this year a stray white female cat started hanging out every day in my back yard. After awhile I started putting food and water out for her, and then she basically lived in my yard almost 24/7. Then she started letting me pet her, more and more, especially when I was bringing her food. I started calling her Nadia. I thought very hard about adopting her, but when I adopted my 7th cat in 2004 I swore to myself "This is the LAST one!" Plus my oldest cat Lily is sensitive and neurotic and already doesn't like having so many other cats in the house.
Not surprisingly, Nadia turned up pregnant. What did surprise me is that she gave birth literally on my back doorstep. The nest was only a few feet away from my back door, and not in a good place - not secluded or protected at all. A few hours after the kittens were born I decided to bring the whole family into my house (my bedroom, seperate from my other kitties) with the idea that I could socialize the kittens (there are 4 of them) and find homes for them, and adopt Nadia myself. Nadia hissed and spit at me a bit when I moved everybody, but she let me do it.
Okay so, now the kittens (all boys) are 7 weeks old. They are pretty well socialized, I think. They are scheduled to go to a small no-kill shelter when they turn 8 weeks old on the 16th (this is the same place where I got my one shelter kitty, it's a nice place and they have a good rate of adoption).
Question: should I keep one of the kittens?
Nadia was fairly tame when I brought her in, but she really regressed in those first few weeks. She will not let me pet her anymore, she hisses at me all the time, and she does not like me touching or handling the kittens (though she minds it less now that they are older). I'm sure most of this has to do with her being a very protective new mother.
Here's my thinking in favor of keeping a kitten. Nadia was very upset at being put in captivity, and she's still not crazy about it. I cannot introduce her to my other kitties until she is tame and has gone to see the vet. That means she'll be living alone in my bedroom, probably for weeks at least. Maybe I'm projecting, but I just think it would be too hard on her to be cooped up alone in this strange place, losing all of her babies in one fell swoop. If she could keep one of her babies with her, I think she would be happier and I wouldn't feel so guilty leaving her alone for most of the day.
And yes, I admit, I have gotten massively attached to the kittens and the thought of giving all 4 of them away to strangers is tearing me up. Keeping a kitten would be harder on Lily and my other kitties, but they have adjusted before and can probably do so again if I give them lots of extra love and attention.
On the other hand, I think keeping a kitten with Nadia means that aggressive-protective maternal behavior of hers would continue for quite awhile. So it would probably take much longer for her to tame up again. Plus it would be easier on my own cats to only have to deal with 1 new kitty instead of 2.
Of course I could release Nadia outside again if she's really unhappy, but I can't do that till she's spayed, and I can't get her spayed till she's tame.
So there's my dilemma. It may not sound like much, but I've been agonizing over this decision like crazy. I want to do whatever is best for my cats, for Nadia, and of course for the kittens, but I just don't know what that is.
One final question. My house is a little over 1500 square feet, plus I have a small screened porch that I leave open whenever weather permits. How many cats is too many for that sized living space? Or am I already there?
If you've read this far, thank you very much. Any advice whatsoever would be greatly appreciated.
~Lilydilly