some of you might remember a thread i started about not wanting children, at the time it was pretty much just me because i hadn't discussed it with my husband yet which i was afraid to do incase he told me he wanted them.
anyway, last weekend he sat me down for a talk and siad that if i really don't want them then he's happy to leave it because it's a huge responsibility and even if we had them now they would be with us until we were nearly fifty, effectively taking up the rest of our lives
he also said that he had wanted them because he felt we should....because you get married then have kids lol but i told him not everyone does these days and that i'm happy just to have my cats and dog and he was happy with that!
it's such a huge weight lifted off my shoulders, now i can stop worrying about it and start thinking of all the awesome things i can do in a kid free life
felicia
anyway, last weekend he sat me down for a talk and siad that if i really don't want them then he's happy to leave it because it's a huge responsibility and even if we had them now they would be with us until we were nearly fifty, effectively taking up the rest of our lives
he also said that he had wanted them because he felt we should....because you get married then have kids lol but i told him not everyone does these days and that i'm happy just to have my cats and dog and he was happy with that!
it's such a huge weight lifted off my shoulders, now i can stop worrying about it and start thinking of all the awesome things i can do in a kid free life
felicia