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The question for today is:
Would you stay with your significant other if someone better turns up?
Your current significant other is not a bad person and is quite good and you would be quite happy spending the rest of your life with that person.
The CURRENT model is about 80% of your ideal/dream.
The NEW model is about 90% of your ideal/dream.
Assumptions:
1) We can somehow instantly measure how much a person meets your IDEAL and can place it in a numerical form.
2) The NEW upgrade is a loyal person and would stay with you.
3) There is no cheating or anything involved, if there is an upgrade as means breaking up.
4) Assume that you are in a relationship, if you are not.
Explanation of Choices:
1) Always LOYAL
Self explanatory, never upgrade even if you are out with the person for only a short while.
2) Loyal unless we just started DATING or NOT in SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP
Based on your own definition of a serious relationship. Could be when both sides say I love you or, could be after a period of time, etc
3) Upgrade unless MARRIED
Even if you have been dating the person for 5 or 10 years you would still upgrade. One assumption is that no kids are involved. This includes people who are in a relationship that is almost like a marriage, such as people who do not believe in marriage or people who cannot get married.
4) Upgrade unless there are KIDS involved
If the couple has kids together whether is it through natural means (even if aided by science) or adoption.
5) Always UPGRADE
Would upgrade to a better model, always.
6) Others
If there is something which is not reflected or captured by the choices.
THROUGH THICK AND THIN:
Another question to ask is this:
If you significant other stood by you through a particularly difficult time, illness, pursuing your dreams, or school, etc then would this have an impact on your decision to stay with the person? What if you knew the NEW model if he/she was there would have done the same.
FINAL WORDS:
Today's thoughts on love have been brought to you by the 1993 Canadian case of Caratun v Caratun, where the husband divorced the wife shortly after getting his dentistry license. The wife had worked to put him through school.
Would you stay with your significant other if someone better turns up?
Your current significant other is not a bad person and is quite good and you would be quite happy spending the rest of your life with that person.
The CURRENT model is about 80% of your ideal/dream.
The NEW model is about 90% of your ideal/dream.
Assumptions:
1) We can somehow instantly measure how much a person meets your IDEAL and can place it in a numerical form.
2) The NEW upgrade is a loyal person and would stay with you.
3) There is no cheating or anything involved, if there is an upgrade as means breaking up.
4) Assume that you are in a relationship, if you are not.
Explanation of Choices:
1) Always LOYAL
Self explanatory, never upgrade even if you are out with the person for only a short while.
2) Loyal unless we just started DATING or NOT in SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP
Based on your own definition of a serious relationship. Could be when both sides say I love you or, could be after a period of time, etc
3) Upgrade unless MARRIED
Even if you have been dating the person for 5 or 10 years you would still upgrade. One assumption is that no kids are involved. This includes people who are in a relationship that is almost like a marriage, such as people who do not believe in marriage or people who cannot get married.
4) Upgrade unless there are KIDS involved
If the couple has kids together whether is it through natural means (even if aided by science) or adoption.
5) Always UPGRADE
Would upgrade to a better model, always.
6) Others
If there is something which is not reflected or captured by the choices.
THROUGH THICK AND THIN:
Another question to ask is this:
If you significant other stood by you through a particularly difficult time, illness, pursuing your dreams, or school, etc then would this have an impact on your decision to stay with the person? What if you knew the NEW model if he/she was there would have done the same.
FINAL WORDS:
Today's thoughts on love have been brought to you by the 1993 Canadian case of Caratun v Caratun, where the husband divorced the wife shortly after getting his dentistry license. The wife had worked to put him through school.