Socializing Suzie - an adult feral

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Hi! First let me say I am very happy to have found this forum and hope that you'll kindly let me tap in on your expertise.

About six months ago I became interested in TNR, obtained a trap from a local group, and caught Suzie on the very first day. She was spayed and I got a combo test done on her ... it came back negative for all ... I found I was pretty good at trapping and neutering but terrible at releasing! In short, Suzie is here with me and my 2 older tame females (they are 12 and 14). I don't know how old Suzie is, but the vet at the spay clinic indicated that she was at least one year old. So at this point she is at least a year and a half old.

Suzie is living in a spare bedroom. There's a baby gate on the door but it is a psychological barrier to delineate Suzie's "safe place" since a reasonably spry kitty can jump it easily. The two older females show little interest in Suzie and she isn't too interested in them, either.

I've made some progress with Suzie. She's gone from cowering behind furniture to a point where she's comfortable with me being about two feet away. She plays and rolls over in my presence. She will approach me for catnip and treats. However, I've not yet been permitted to touch her.

Suzie is getting very interested in the world beyond the baby gate. When I'm around, she'll jump over it and explore the room on the other side. I assume she does that when I'm not there also.

My question is ... should I keep her confined in the room (i.e. close the door so she can't jump out) until I can touch her? Or should she be able to roam around and maybe even make friends with the other kitties now? I can see where it might be beneficial to her to see how the other kitties and I interact, but I don't want to wind up with an "indoor feral." My fear is that she will get sick or hurt, and I won't be able to handle her enough to get her to a vet, so my goal with her at this point is to be able to touch her.

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Sara
 

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I would let her out but not make a big deal about it. Put the baby gate up so it isn't touching the floor, so she thinks you made an error and she can crawl underneath it to go and explore. Leave her be, just have a dark blanket available, ready to throw over the cats should they tangle. Make sure before you let her out you have one litter pan apiece for each cat, plus one extra, several water bowls, and separate feed dishes. Less confrontation that way-


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It's time for her to start exploring her new territory. The most amazing progess has happened since I started having Penguin eat with the others...we are so very close to first contact it's surprising it hasn't happened yet. I worry about the same thing you do; if Pengy gets sick, how will I get her care? When it's time for me to move, how will I get her into a carrier? And all that. But the truth is, for now, those aren't happening, so I'm not going to force interaction until it is beyond necessary...in the meantime, she is learning the house, the other cats, and my routine...and that's very good. Same for your Suzie.

She may never be a cuddler like your others. She may never be a lap kitty...but you and she will have a special bond that is unlike any other bond you've ever had. I'm still waiting for the first touch a year and a half later, but I also know it will come, and when it does, it will be overwhelming.

Thank you for bringing Suzie in...she deserved it, and you deserve the specialness of that relationship.

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Originally Posted by hissy

I would let her out but not make a big deal about it. Put the baby gate up so it isn't touching the floor, so she thinks you made an error and she can crawl underneath it to go and explore. Leave her be, just have a dark blanket available, ready to throw over the cats should they tangle. Make sure before you let her out you have one litter pan apiece for each cat, plus one extra, several water bowls, and separate feed dishes. Less confrontation that way-


Good luck!
Hissy...I learn something new from you every day. This is good information for me when someone asks about a similiar situation when I'm at the rescue events.

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I agree with what has been said - I think letting Suzie out is a good idea. I myself have never socialised a feral cat, so I am not saying this on experience but purely on what I have read from the members here and what they have experienced.

I also agree with Michele, that you & Suzie will have a special bond and it will work out over time... thankyou for taking Suzie into your home and into your heart. I will most certainly be keeping an eye on this thread for any updates.

If you decide to let Suzie explore out of the room, know that there will be loads of people around here willing to offer advise or even just support as you go along..

GOOD LUCK!!!
YAY!!!
 
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Thanks so much for your replies!

I will continue to let Suzie roam around and with any luck, she will make friends with one or both of my other kitties. They'll probably teach her quite a bit about living in the house, including their specialty - how to get the resident slave (me) to feed and pat on command.

Have a great Labor Day weekend,

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Sara! Woo! Way to go!
They can be a challenge but finally about 11 mos after I brought my feral/stray in, one day she just decided "Hey this isn't so bad and I need all your attention NOW"
She is presently more entertaining than her kitten
 
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Well, I think we are making some progress. Suzie is wandering around in the family room now and she is very interested in what I do with the other kitties! She watched bug-eyed as I brushed Muffin (who only growled at her a little bit, like a good girl does). I'm sure the idea that a kitty could actually enjoy being touched, much less be close to Mommy, was pretty unbelievable, but she was seeing it with her own eyes ... and that other kitty was purring too!

Suzie also meows quite a bit whenever I'm paying attention to one of the other cats, and settles down when I go over to her and sing or talk, even though I am not allowed to get very close.

Who knows, maybe "kitty see, kitty do" will do the trick!

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Sara, it most certainly does sound promising, I think your doing a wonderful job. Thankou for keeping us updated. We are thinking of you & Suzie and just hope this all works out for you
 
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