Hello Everyone...I know it's been awhile since I've been on the site. I've been having alot of personal problems, my husband and I seperated and are getting a divorce. I no longer have a computer, he got custody of it but that's okay, I got my 4 cats. My problem is my youngest cat Titus has started to act up more than usual whenever I go to leave for work or anything. He grabs my legs and gets in front of the door so I can't get by, I have to trick him by throwing his toy and when he runs to get it I run out the door. It is the only way I can get out without him running outside. None of my cats are outside cats and are never allowed outside. After I get out the door he jumps at the window and I can see he is hollering sometimes, he just looks so sad. He has torn the blinds but I'm really concerned about how to make him feel better. I think that maybe he thinks that because my husband left I might do the same, I don't know. In the evenings when I get home he was running out the door but wouldn't go further than the steps, I can always pick him up and take him back in but I'm so scared one day that he will go off the porch and I won't be able to get him. I now ring the doorbell before entering my own house, it scares him away from the door long enough for me to get in, sooner or later he may catch on, or is it just all a game for him. He is about 10 months old and he and all the cats in the house are spayed and neutered. What is wrong? What can I do?
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1/28/02 at 2:33pm