So here is my man rant..

So..ok..steve and i have been talking about part time jobs so we can pull in some extra cash, being as his ex is getting so much from us right now, vet bills ect. well i have a job as a Bil Jac demonstrater that i start on thursday, and i should have heard back from the petstore today. I didnt, but I will call them again tommrow. So thats two part time jobs, plus the full time, plus the training with horses and dogs that i do. for me.

So before i got the bil jac and possibly the pet store job, we had talked about doing a paper route together. It takes about 2 hours every morning, and pays around $300 every two weeks. not bad.

WELL...the second i mentioned i had gotten a call from the guy. but with me working two other jobs he may have to do the paper route himself..if he still wanted to do it. well he started whinning..and pooeing that we were supposed to do it together..and he got all huffy about it.

so now i will have to do all of it..

Katie - NO, you do NOT have to do all of it! You can say no, and you can stand up for yourself. It sounds like he knows if he whines and moans enough that you will give in. But you don't have to give in.

Aren't you guys trying to get pregnant? I don't think exhaustion is real conducive to getting pregnant. You need to take care of yourself! It will be hard enough with a full time and two part time jobs and taking care of the animals, but add a job where you have to be up at the crack of dawn too...It wouldn't be healthy for you to take on so much!

Katie, will you marry me? I need someone to work twice as hard as I do!

Just kidding, but put this in some perspective. If a girlfriend told you what you just posted, what would you advise her?!? Stick up for yourself, you can do it. Easier than training a horse-just let him know what your limits are!

Originally Posted by valanhb

Katie - NO, you do NOT have to do all of it! You can say no, and you can stand up for yourself. It sounds like he knows if he whines and moans enough that you will give in. But you don't have to give in.

Aren't you guys trying to get pregnant? I don't think exhaustion is real conducive to getting pregnant. You need to take care of yourself! It will be hard enough with a full time and two part time jobs and taking care of the animals, but add a job where you have to be up at the crack of dawn too...It wouldn't be healthy for you to take on so much!

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Thanks. I think hes just being a poo about it now cause he just got in from work and hes crabby. Always is, lol. he doesnt know the area very well I will give him that. I can ride around with him one or two times to make sure he knows the route i dont have a problem doing that. I know he works hard, so Do I. I tell ya I wanted to pop him in the nose when he started with the whinning tonight. I was going to put it in my name to make sure we dont get nailed by the evil one on that too. and I was going to help him here and there...when I could. But I agree. Exhaustian aint gonna help none with trying to get pregant..and than once I am..that would be a big NO NO.

Originally Posted by Beckiboo

Katie, will you marry me? I need someone to work twice as hard as I do!

Just kidding, but put this in some perspective. If a girlfriend told you what you just posted, what would you advise her?!? Stick up for yourself, you can do it. Easier than training a horse-just let him know what your limits are!

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I would probably tell her to kick him in the butt...LOL..which I just did. I informed him if he doesnt stop whinning and ship up baby making is on hold lol

Wow that's alot of work, Katie!

Originally Posted by WellingtonCats

Wow that's alot of work, Katie!

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Yup let no one say i dont work hard LOL. I dont mind the two extra part time jobs seeing as winter is coming and the horse stuff will SLOOOOW DOWN...ah well at least American Chopper is on late at night hehe