Love Tales: Money or Looks

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Originally Posted by Beckiboo

Howard, you always crack me up!

Is this an upgrade on the current model? My dh looks just fine to me, and I am sure he always will. But a ton of money would make life so much easier! I'm voting for rich, although I married a poor man for his many other qualities! One of which is generosity, you don't see that too much in rich men!
Becky, I like your thoughts on this. Good answer!
 

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After some thought, I chose "be rich".
I prefer 'brainy" people over "beauty" ones anyway.
 

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I voted rich because a little money never hurt anyone....however, both of those qualities are WAAAAAAAAAAY down on the list. First should come: honest, respectful, hard-working, not abusive, funny, etc. etc.
ditto
 

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Definately rich, as when/if I marry I want it to last, and I've seen so many marriages fall apart due to money worries. If you don't have to worry about how you're going to pay the mortgage next month, I'm sure the stress levels would be so much lower and therefore life much brighter.

I don't care what a man looks like, I'm more interested in how he makes me feel, and how much we have in common. It's no good looking like Brad Pitt if your only topics of conversation are fake tan and Gucci.
 

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Originally Posted by ugaimes

I voted rich because a little money never hurt anyone....however, both of those qualities are WAAAAAAAAAAY down on the list. First should come: honest, respectful, hard-working, not abusive, funny, etc. etc.
A double


My list goes like this :Honest/Ethical, Funny, Intelligent, Laid-back, Kind, Compassionate, Animal Lover, Generous, Spontaneous, Hard-working, has presence/charisma, Attractive....IF he's rich too, its gravy.

etc, etc, etc....
 

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I say be rich, but hopefully he would be very generous so I could contribute both time & money to benefit children & aniimals....And if not, it just wouldn't work out, and I know some great lawyers!

I've dated only one really good-lookiing man - he was way out of my league, and the challenge for other women to try to ace was too much for them to pass up; I hated the kind of attention we got. As for him, he was a sweetheart; it was a long distance relationship, and like I said, he was way out of my league so I just blew him off. That relationship made me realize how insecure I am. But, boy was he awesome to hug!! 6'5", 225 #, very, very fit - resembles Pierce Brosnan, but built more like a football player...sigh....and he likes cats & cats like him...OMG! What was I thinking?
 

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I voted for looks without question. I believe that's an essential and necessary part of a relationship. I didn't realize my vote would be so off the wall though.
 
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